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24 Ways to Develop a Healthy, Sober Mindset

Amy Liz HarrisonBy Amy Liz HarrisonFebruary 28, 20243 Mins Read
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It’s not a new concept: the power of the mind. For the sober curious, the mind is the epicenter of a whole new perspective. Make no mistake, getting sober takes action, it’s not going to magically fall from the sky just by thinking about it. However, thinking about it is like planting the seeds of what could someday become a very healthy tree.

  1. Embrace Positivity: Ditch the Debbie Downer attitude and adopt a “glass half full” mindset. Even if it’s half full of kale smoothie.
  2. Practice Gratitude: Keep a gratitude journal. It’s like keeping a diary, but with less angst and more “thank you”s.
  3. Set Realistic Goals: Set achievable goals, because aiming to be a unicorn might be a stretch. Celebrate even the tiny victories, like not wearing pajamas to the supermarket.
  4. Stay Present: Practice mindfulness. It’s not just for yoga enthusiasts and people with incense collections.
  5. Seek Support: Join support groups or seek therapy. It’s like having a fan club, but they actually help you solve your problems.
  6. Engage in Physical Activity: Exercise. It’s the legal way to get high and look good doing it.
  7. Develop New Hobbies: Find a hobby. Knitting, skydiving, underwater basket weaving – the sky’s (not) the limit.
  8. Foster Healthy Relationships: Choose your circle wisely. Remember, it’s quality over quantity – this isn’t a Facebook friends list.
  9. Learn Stress Management: Find healthy ways to deal with stress that don’t involve screaming into pillows (though occasionally, that helps too).
  10. Practice Self-Care: Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s self-preservation. It’s like putting on your own oxygen mask first.
  11. Reframe Failures as Lessons: Failures are just plot twists in your success story. Spoiler alert: You come out stronger.
  12. Avoid Triggers: Stay away from triggers. Think of it like dodging potholes on the road to recovery.
  13. Celebrate Sobriety Milestones: Celebrate your sobriety birthdays. It’s the only time getting older is actually fun.
  14. Cultivate Patience: Sobriety is a marathon, not a sprint. Unless you sprint marathons, in which case, you’re just showing off.
  15. Seek Inspiration: Read success stories. They’re like reality TV, but with better role models.
  16. Nurture Your Spirituality: Whether it’s meditation or believing in the Flying Spaghetti Monster, find what feeds your soul.
  17. Focus on Nutrition: Eat well. Your body isn’t a trash can, so don’t fill it with garbage.
  18. Get Adequate Rest: Sleep is not for the weak; it’s for the wise. Plus, you can’t eat junk food when you’re sleeping.
  19. Practice Forgiveness: Forgive yourself. Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to get sick.
  20. Engage in Creative Activities: Get creative. Channel your inner Picasso or Shakespeare. Or just color outside the lines – it’s your masterpiece.
  21. Volunteer: Helping others helps you. It’s the only instance where being selfish and selfless are the same thing.
  22. Develop a Routine: Routines are comforting. Like a security blanket, but less fuzzy and more productive.
  23. Educate Yourself: Knowledge is power, especially when it comes to understanding your own journey. It’s like being your own superhero, but without the cape.
  24. Remain Hopeful: Keep hope alive. It’s the little voice telling you, “You got this,” even when your inner cynic rolls its eyes.

Remember, a touch of humor can be a powerful tool in maintaining a positive outlook on the road to recovery.

Keep smiling, you got this!


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Amy Liz Harrison is the bestselling author of two memoirs and the founder and CEO of publishing imprint, A-Team Press, LLC. Harrison is also a podcaster, recovery/mental health advocate, a 12-step coach, a mom to eight biological kids, and a wife to one Australian airline executive. Harrison’s material is semi geared towards Gen Xers, but like “We Are the World,” it’s really for everyone, because she’s a lover, not a fighter. Sober since 2011, she used to like pina coladas. But as a native Californian, she has never liked getting caught in the rain.

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