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After putting down the bottle in May 2025, Charlie Carroll began rebuilding his life one walk at a time. He shares how sobriety, fitness and consistency gave him a new sense of strength—and inspired the creation of Jacked on Sobriety.
Megan A. Schikora’s A Woman in Pink examines what happens when love, loyalty and the desire to save someone begin to look dangerously like self-abandonment.
Amanda Chen built TOMONOTOMO, an agave spirit made the traditional way. No shortcuts, no extracts. Fire, copper, and patience. Contributor Kim Parsley reviewed the Tobalá in Happy Every Hour back in May and it is delicious. This week, Amanda told us how she got from behind the bar to behind the still.
Scenic stops, coffee breaks and an itinerary that answers to you. Here’s why a self-drive New Zealand road trip can suit sober travelers, plus what to check before booking a rental car.
After saving the money he once spent on alcohol, Jay Hon set out on a five-month adventure—and encountered an unexpected setback along the way. Now sober again, he is preparing for an overland journey through Thailand and Laos with a stronger plan for staying connected.
Laura Clery’s What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Hotter is a funny, vulnerable and occasionally uncomfortable account of divorce, single motherhood, dating and staying sober when life refuses to follow the script.
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Contributor Paulina Pinsky was repeatedly told that weed wasn’t addictive—even as she experienced cravings, withdrawal, vomiting, and an inability to stop. In this personal essay, she examines the complicated line between cannabis dependence and addiction and asks whether recognizing the difference sooner might have changed her story.
You’re finally wide awake for your own life. So what do you want to do with all these hours you used to drink through? A cheat sheet for sober nights, from the golden-hour pre-game to the midnight movie, with zero drink pressure and zero FOMO.
Rooms full of people with serious sobriety are chain-vaping in the parking lot, and nobody talks about it. Here’s how to quit nicotine using the recovery muscles you already built, one minute at a time.
What happens after someone gets sober and starts rebuilding an actual life? Teetotal Initiative co-founder Scott Page shares how more than 100 Pittsburgh-area events have created alcohol-free spaces for friendship, creativity, curiosity and belonging.
Nearly 30 years after hearing Anthony Hopkins speak at a Los Angeles recovery meeting, Senior Contributor Lane Kennedy revisits that experience through his memoir, We Did OK, Kid. As Hopkins celebrates 50 years sober, Lane reflects on why getting sober is only the beginning—and what it really means to stay.
At 51, one reader worries that she is too financially behind to ever catch up. Greg explains why “behind” may be the most damaging word in the question—and offers one small, shame-free habit for beginning a new relationship with money.
Senior Contributor Tony Harte reviews The Acts of Kenny Lambert by Kurt Rasmussen, an introspective novel about alcoholism, identity and one man’s uneasy entrance into recovery. Despite uneven pacing and an unresolved spiritual conflict, its final act delivers a compelling portrait of self-deception and change.
One photograph and four simple words—“I’m glad you exist”—sparked an extraordinary friendship between Contributor Kim Bellas (founder of Sober is the New Cool) and Found Recovery co-founder Danielle Nepus. Kim shares how Danielle’s compassion, courage and commitment to helping others continue to inspire her.
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#FAQ
1. What is The Sober Curator?
The Sober Curator is a lifestyle platform that proves alcohol-free living is aspirational, stylish, and a hell of a lot more fun than people think. We curate the best in entertainment, travel, wellness, culture, and personal stories through a sober lens. No preaching, no deprivation narratives. Just real proof that sobriety isn’t limiting, it’s empowering. Whether you’re sober, sober curious, or just exploring life beyond the glass, consider us your go-to resource and community.
2. Can anyone contribute content to The Sober Curator?
Absolutely! We currently have 38 official sober curator contributors on staff, including journalists, wellness experts, travelers, and people with lived sober experience. We also welcome reader submissions for sections like Speak Out! Speak Loud! (our op-ed section), Sober Poetry, and Sobriety in the City (aka how to have the perfect sober day in your city). We’re always looking for diverse voices that support sober curiosity, recovery awareness, and modern alcohol-free living. Not every submission is accepted, but if your story fits, we’d love to hear from you.
3. What does an alcohol free lifestyle mean?
An alcohol-free lifestyle simply means choosing to live without alcohol. Full stop. And here’s the thing: you don’t need a rock bottom story to claim it. Maybe you’re in recovery. Maybe you just don’t like how drinking makes you feel. Maybe you’re curious about what life looks like without the hangover. All of it counts. For us, it’s about showing up fully present and discovering that the fun, connection, and adventure were never really coming from the bottle. They were coming from you.
4. What types of topics does the site cover?
A lot. We publish 60+ articles a month across our core content pillars: na beverage reviews (beers, wines, spirits, RTDs, and recipes), health and fitness (mental, emotional, and physical), entertainment (movies, books, TV, music, sports, sober celebrities, and pop culture), travel and events (including a sober retreat and events calendar), lifestyle (fashion, shopping, dating, parenting, and more), recovery resources, and our Spiritual Gangster section covering everything from astrology and tarot to yoga and stoicism. Think of us as your one-stop shop for living your best life without the booze.
5. What is included in Entertainment content?
We’re pop culture addicts who happen to be sober. Our entertainment section covers movies, TV, documentaries, books, music, sports, podcasts, and everything happening in celebrity culture through a sober lens. That means we’re reviewing the latest binge-worthy series, spotlighting sober celebrities, breaking down how Hollywood portrays addiction and recovery, and keeping you in the loop on the entertainment worth your time. We cover all of it. We just do it without the beer goggles.
6. Does the site feature Travel & Events for sober people?
Pack your bags! Our Travel and Events section covers alcohol-free vacations, wellness retreats, sober festivals, and community gatherings across the country. We maintain a Sober Retreat Calendar and a Sober Events Calendar so you always know what’s coming up. Our Sobriety in the City hub pages give you the inside scoop on the sober scene in cities like Seattle, Minneapolis, and New York City, complete with local resources, events, and the best places to go. We also feature city-specific guides (like How to Have the Perfect Sober Day in your city), travel stories from our contributors and readers, and coverage of experiences like sober cruises, recovery campouts, and destination retreats. Whether you’re planning a weekend getaway or looking for something fun happening near you, we’ve got you covered.
7. Is a sober lifestyle only for people in recovery?
Not at all. While we absolutely celebrate and support people in recovery, an alcohol-free lifestyle is for anyone. Maybe you’re sober curious. Maybe you’re taking a break. Maybe you just feel better without it. There’s no membership card required and no story you need to qualify with. The Sober Curator exists for all of it. We believe sobriety isn’t about what you’re giving up. It’s about what you’re gaining.
8. What are the benefits of an alcohol free lifestyle?
Where do we start? Better sleep. More energy. Clearer skin. Less anxiety. Stronger relationships. Actually remembering Saturday morning. People asking if you changed your skincare routine (nope, just put down the wine). The physical benefits alone are worth it, but most people are surprised by what else shows up: sharper thinking, real confidence, deeper connections, and a sense of showing up for your life in a way you didn’t know you were missing. We’re not doctors and everyone’s experience is different, but we hear these stories from our community every single day. And honestly? You’re way more interesting without the hangover.
9. What is long-term recovery and sobriety?
Long-term sobriety and recovery means you keep showing up. One day at a time. With no days off. It’s not a finish line you cross. It’s a practice that grows with you. Some days are easier than others, and that’s the truth nobody puts on a motivational poster. But over time, most people find that sobriety gets richer, not harder. You still have problems; they just get classier. You build new habits, find your people, and discover what actually fills you up. The Sober Curator is here for every stage of that journey, whether you’re on day one or year twenty. #ODAAT
10. Why is mental health important in recovery?
Because getting sober is just the beginning. A lot of people put down the drink and then realize there’s a whole layer underneath they never dealt with. Anxiety, depression, trauma, stress. The stuff that was there before the bottle and is still there after. That’s why mental health isn’t a side topic for us. It’s one of our core content pillars. We cover everything from therapy and emotional wellness to fitness, mindfulness, and spiritual health because real recovery means taking care of the whole person, not just removing the substance. You deserve to feel good, not just sober. And if you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. We’re here to inform and inspire, but we’re not a substitute for professional care.
11. What challenges are common in sober recovery?
Let’s be honest. Recovery is amazing and it’s also really hard sometimes. You might lose friends who only knew you with a drink in your hand. Social situations can feel awkward when you’re the only one not drinking. Holidays, weddings, even a random Tuesday can catch you off guard. You might not recognize yourself for a while, and that can be scary. These are things almost everyone in recovery deals with, and we talk about all of it openly at The Sober Curator. Through personal stories, contributor essays, and our recovery resources, we make sure you know you’re not the only one figuring this out. Because you’re not. Not even close.
12. Can recovery look different for everyone?
Yes. Full stop. There is no one right way to do this. Some people go to AA every day. Some people do therapy. Some people found yoga or running or breathwork or community. Some people white-knuckled it and figured it out as they went. All of it counts. Your recovery is yours and nobody gets to tell you you’re doing it wrong. At The Sober Curator, we share stories from all kinds of journeys because the more paths people see, the more possible their own feels. The only thing that matters is that you keep going.
13. Why are recovery stories important?
Because nobody should ever feel like they’re the only one. Recovery can be isolating, and sometimes the thing that keeps you going is hearing someone else say “me too.” That’s why storytelling is at the heart of what we do. Our We Do Recover series features real stories from real people about how they got sober. Our Speak Out! Speak Loud! section gives readers a place to share their own voice. And across everything we publish, you’ll find contributors and community members being honest about what this life actually looks like. The good days, the hard days, and everything in between. Stories reduce stigma. But more than that, they make people feel less alone. And that can change everything.
14. How can recovery stories help someone new to sobriety?
Early sobriety can feel like walking into a room where everyone else seems to know what they’re doing except you. Recovery stories remind you that every single person in that room felt the same way at some point. Reading how someone else made it through the first week, the first holiday, the first party without a drink can make your own next step feel a little less impossible. And these stories aren’t just for the person getting sober. They’re just as important for the friends, family members, and loved ones trying to understand what someone they care about is going through. We have an entire Family Resources section and Al-Anon perspective content for exactly that reason. Nobody goes through this alone, and nobody should have to.
15. Are recovery stories only about addiction?
Not even a little bit. Some of our stories are about addiction and recovery, absolutely. But plenty of them are about someone who just decided alcohol wasn’t serving them anymore. Or someone working through anxiety, grief, or trauma. Or someone who got curious about what life looks like without drinking and never went back. Recovery, the way we see it, isn’t just about putting down a substance. It’s about picking yourself up. That can look like leaving a toxic relationship, changing careers, starting therapy, finding faith, or simply choosing to live differently. If your story involves growth, healing, or showing up for yourself in a new way, it belongs here.
16. What does sober health and wellness include?
A lot more than you might think. Health and wellness is one of our biggest content pillars and it covers the whole picture: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. That means everything from fitness and nutrition to therapy, mindfulness, yoga, and our Spiritual Gangster section (which gets into astrology, tarot, stoicism, and more). We also feature Sober Poetry, personal essays, and reader-submitted stories because sometimes wellness looks like finally putting your feelings into words. The goal isn’t perfection. It’s building a life that feels good to live in without needing a drink to get through it.
17. Why are movies about sobriety important?
Because Hollywood has been getting addiction wrong for decades, and when they finally get it right, somebody should be paying attention. That’s us. Our Movie Night section reviews films through a sober lens. The Mindful Binge covers TV series that tackle addiction, recovery, and mental health (yes, we reviewed The Bear – every season). We feature documentaries and reality TV that tell the real stories Hollywood often glosses over or edits out. We even have our own rating system, The Sobees, so you know what you’re getting into before you press play. Whether a film makes you laugh, cry, or call your sponsor, we think these stories matter because the more sobriety shows up on screen, the more normal it becomes off-screen.
18. Why is sober entertainment important to recovery?
Because what you watch, read, and listen to matters, especially in early recovery. When every show has a bar scene and every celebration ends with champagne, it can feel like the whole world runs on alcohol. Sober entertainment flips that. It gives you movies, music, books, podcasts, live theatre, and pop culture that don’t make you feel like the odd one out. That’s why we built an entire entertainment section with Movie Night, The Mindful Binge, Recovery Podcastland, our #QuitLit library, coverage of sober celebrities and sober pop culture, reviews of live experiences like theatre and community events, and spotlights on sober content creators across social platforms. It’s not about avoiding everything. It’s about having a place that gets it so you can stay plugged into culture without feeling like sobriety makes you a spectator.
19. Is it possible to enjoy life while living sober?
Is it possible? It’s the whole point. That’s literally why The Sober Curator exists. We were built to prove that alcohol-free living isn’t just manageable, it’s fun, stylish, adventurous, and full of the kind of moments you’ll actually remember. We cover travel, entertainment, fashion, food, events, wellness, and culture all through a sober lens because none of those things ever needed alcohol to be great. You can go to concerts. You can travel the world. You can dance, date, celebrate, and have the best night of your life without a single drink. Don’t take our word for it. Spend five minutes on the site and see for yourself.
20. What do all these recovery and sobriety terms mean?
New to this world? You’re going to hear a lot of words and acronyms thrown around. ODAAT. Pink cloud. Dry drunk. Sober curious. Harm reduction. Cross addiction. It can feel like everyone’s speaking a language you didn’t get the handbook for. So we made one. Our Glossary of Addiction and Recovery Terms breaks down the terminology in plain, judgment-free language so you’re never lost in a conversation, a meeting, or an article on this site. Bookmark it. You’ll use it more than you think.
21. What is sober pop culture?
Sober pop culture is the cultural landscape of media, entertainment, fashion, travel, and lifestyle experienced through an alcohol-free lens. The term was defined and pioneered by Alysse Bryson, founder of The Sober Curator, to describe the growing influence of sober and sober-curious individuals shaping modern culture, entertainment, and consumer trends.