BACKSTAGE
A private cultural membership for people in sobriety who are ready for more.
Recovery taught you how to survive.
This is where you expand.
Only 200 founding members will be invited.
You’re not new to this. You’re ready for what’s next.
And not everyone gets here.
You’ve done the hard part.
You’re sober. You’re clear.
You’ve built a life that no longer revolves around alcohol.
Now you’re ready for something more.
You want better conversations.
More connection.
More culture.
More expansion.
You’re not looking for another recovery meeting.
You’re looking for a room that reflects who you are now.
This is for you if this sounds like you:
- – You’re sober and stable.
- – You’ve outgrown. traditional recovery spaces.
- – You want more than support — you want connection, culture, and momentum.
- – You’re ready for what comes after survival.
That’s exactly what BACKSTAGE was built for.
Recovery isn’t the
end of the story.
Recovery has been framed as survival.
Staying sober as maintenance.
We’re interested in something else.
Not just getting through life —
but actually engaging with it.
Identity.
Culture.
Celebration.
Taste.
Expansion.
This is the room where the conversation finally aligns
with who you’ve become — and where you’re going next.
👇Watch this first:
If you’re trying to understand what BACKSTAGE actually is —
this will make it click.
Backstage is where long-term sobriety becomes authorship & recovery culture is defined.
What Backstage Is
Backstage is not a recovery meeting.
It’s a cultural room.
Not maintenance.
It’s momentum.
Not small talk.
It’s real conversation.
Not self-improvement.
It’s expansion.
Inside, you’ll find:
- – Thoughtful conversations that go beyond sobriety
- – Access to people, ideas, and experiences shaping sober culture
- – A space where long-term sobriety actually feels interesting again
This is the room you’ve been looking for.
The one that didn’t exist — until now.
What this actually looks like:
- – Monthly live conversations
- – Early access to events + curated drops
- – A private room of people who are building something with their sobriety
- – Members only quarterly digital zine
What Happens Inside Backstage?
Three curated experiences each month.
One intentional week to integrate what actually lands.
Not open to the public.
Not available anywhere else.
Here’s what it actually looks like:
Week One:
Media Night
Where the cultural conversation happens before everyone else catches up.
We’re not just consuming content, we’re discussing it.
Sharp takes.
Better questions.
No surface-level conversations.
Week Two:
Studio Night
Where your creative practice gets oxygen, not performance pressure.
We make something with our hands. Art skills not required.
Because staying sober isn’t maintenance. It’s authorship.
Week Three:
Edutainment Night
Education — but sober, fun, relevant, and actually useful.
Conversations that expand how you think,
not just what you know.
It feels like a dinner party.
But everyone leaves sharper.
Week Four:
Integration Night
No noise. Just space to process, apply, and build momentum.
What Founding Members Get
The access. The people. The momentum.
A Quarterly Publication That’s Actually Worth Saving
A members-only quarterly you’ll actually keep.
Not fluff. Not filler.
Cultural, thoughtful, and designed to stay on your shelf.
Special Access. Selective Invitations.
Invitations you can’t Google.
Early access to guests, events, and collaborations, before they’re public (if they ever are).
Experiences You Can’t Buy Your Way Into
Private gatherings.
Limited releases.
Moments that don’t get posted and don’t need to.
The Room Itself
A private community of people who are building something with their sobriety.
Not beginners.
Not stuck.
Not performing recovery.
Just people moving forward together.
Founding Member Pricing
You’re early.
And that matters.
Founding Members lock in: $19/month or $199/year — for life.
No increases.
No surprises.
No “you missed it” emails later.
Here’s the catch:
Once the first 200 members join:
The price increases to $27/month.
Forever.
This isn’t about pressure.
It’s about recognizing the people who saw it early —
and stepped into the room first.
Who Backstage Is For
Backstage is for people who are sober —
and no longer interested in shrinking their lives to protect it.
It’s for those who don’t need another place to survive.
They want somewhere to expand.
You’ve done the work.
You’re stable.
You’re steady.
Now you want culture.
Conversation.
Creative momentum.
You care about taste.
About ideas.
About the room you’re in.
And the rooms you’ll be invited into next.
You don’t want to circle the same story.
You want to build a new one.
Backstage isn’t crisis support.
It’s cultural momentum.
It’s selective by design.
UPCOMING EVENTS BACKSTAGE
Events
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Media Night | Rufi Thorpe Live
BACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Rufi Thorpe Live Your first BACKSTAGE event is here. And we are not starting small. Rufi Thorpe, the author of Margo's Got Money Troubles, is
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Studio Night | Unpolished: Art Journaling with Krysty Krywko
VirtualBACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Studio Night | Unpolished: Art Journaling with Krysty Krywko Sobriety creates space. Space where numbing used to be. Space where noise used to live. Space
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Edutainment Night | Breathwork Session with Adriane Vy
VirtualBACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Edutainment Night | Breathwork Session with Adriane Vy You showed up for the conversation. You showed up for the creativity. Now we slow all the
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Media Night | Coming Soon
VirtualBACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Media Night | Coming Soon Something good is coming to Media Room. We're finalizing the details and will announce the guest and topic very soon.
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Studio Night | The Joy of Bedazzling with Alysse Bryson
VirtualBACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Studio Night | The Joy of Bedazzling with Alysse Bryson Sobriety is the glow-up. Bedazzling is just the accessories. On May 20, your host Alysse
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Edutainment Night | Conspiracy PowerPoint Party
VirtualBACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Edutainment Night | Conspiracy PowerPoint Party We are giving the floor to the people. And the people have theories. On June 3, BACKSTAGE hosts its
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Media Night | Drunk on Film with Ted Mandell
VirtualBACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Media Night | Drunk on Film with Ted Mandell Before we got sober, Hollywood had already been teaching us how to drink. On June 10,
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Studio Night | Coming Soon
VirtualBACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Studio Night | Coming Soon Something good is coming to Studio Room. We're finalizing the details and will announce the guest and topic very soon.
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BACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Edutainment Night | iPhone Content Creation with Sheena Kalso
VirtualBACKSTAGE Members Only EventsBACKSTAGE with The Sober Curator: Edutainment Night | iPhone Content Creation with Sheena Kalso You have a story worth telling. You have a phone in your hand. Now let's make
A Note from
Alysse Bryson
I built Backstage because I couldn’t find the room I wanted to sit in.
I had sobriety.
I had stability.
But I wanted culture. Conversation. Taste.
I wanted a space where sobriety wasn’t the headline. It was the foundation.
Backstage with The Sober Curator is that room.
It’s where long-term sobriety becomes authorship.
Where identity expands instead of contracts.
Where we talk about art, media, ideas, style, ambition and what it means to build a life that actually fits.
If you’re ready for that,
I’ll see you inside.
Founding Member pricing is limited to the first 200 people.
This isn’t about being saved.
It’s about being intentional.
If you’re ready for that room — the one that doesn’t shrink your sobriety, but expands everything around it — join the waitlist.
Invitations go out Spring 2026. Don’t miss it.
Backstage with The Sober Curator: FAQ
Is this a recovery program or a support group?
Nope. Not even close. Backstage is a cultural membership for people who are already sober and want somewhere to talk about books, art, business, travel, creativity, and pop culture. Think cultural clubhouse, not meeting. If you are looking for peer support or recovery resources, The Sober Curator has a full resource guide for that. Backstage is something different.
Who is Backstage for?
People in long-term sobriety who are stable, steady, and ready to expand. You have done the work. You are not looking for another place to process the early stuff. You want culture, conversation, and a room that matches your ambition. If you have been sober for years and feel like you have outgrown most of the content out there, this was built for you.
What actually happens inside?
Three curated virtual broadcasts every month, all recorded so you never miss one. Media Night covers books, TV, film, podcasts, and headlines worth talking about. Studio Night is hands-on creative time: journaling, collaging, painting, sticker club. Edutainment is the third night, think MasterClass energy but make it sober. You also get members-only content and a quarterly digital zine that is actually worth keeping.
What if I can not make the live broadcast times?
Every broadcast is recorded. You can watch on your own schedule. Being there live is more fun, but it will never be required.
What does it cost?
Founding Members lock in at a special rate that will not be available after the initial 200 spots fill. The founding rate is the lowest this membership will ever be. Get on the waitlist to secure your invitation and pricing before the public launch.
Why only 200 Founding Members?
Because the first cohort shapes the culture of the room. Smaller, more intentional, more curated. Once the 200 founding spots are gone, the membership opens at the standard rate. The founding rate and the founding experience are only available right now.
Do I have to be a certain number of years sober to join?
There is no hard rule, but Backstage is designed for people in long-term recovery who are past the early stages. If you are still navigating the foundational work, we want you to have the right support first. This room is best for people who are stable and ready to build.
Is this only for women?
No. Backstage is open to anyone in long-term sobriety who wants what we are building here. All gender indenties are welcome.
What is The Sober Curator and why should I trust you to run this?
The Sober Curator is an award-winning sober lifestyle and pop culture media platform launched in 2020. We have had over one million unique visitors, built a community of 17,000+ email subscribers, and published more than 3,000 articles across six content verticals with 38 contributors worldwide. I am Alysse Bryson, the founder. I have been sober since 2006. I did not build this to help people survive sobriety. I built it because sober life is actually extraordinary, and somebody needed to cover it that way.
How do I join?
Get on the waitlist. Invitations go out Spring 2026. Founding Member spots are limited to 200 people. Once they are gone, they are gone.