Author: SoberNotMature

Hey everyone! It’s Mike and Bill back with another episode of Sober Not Mature. This week, we had the pleasure of chatting with Tom Farley. Yes, he’s Chris Farley’s brother, but more importantly, he’s one of us. Tom has his own story, life, and career; we had a blast talking with him. We covered everything and nothing all at once—too much to list here. You’ll have to listen to the episode to get it all. Enjoy!​ Episode Highlights: Humor and Depth: True to the podcast’s style, the episode balances lighthearted banter with profound discussions, reflecting the complexities of life, recovery,…

​In Episode 157 of the “Sober Not Mature” podcast, titled “Alex S. – Cheese And Poppies,” the hosts engage in a candid conversation with guest Alex S. The episode delves into topics such as personal experiences with sobriety, the challenges faced during recovery, and the lighter moments that come with embracing a sober lifestyle. Alex shares his journey, highlighting the importance of community support and the humorous anecdotes that have shaped his path.​ The hosts maintain their signature blend of humor and sincerity, creating an environment where serious subjects are discussed with a touch of levity. Listeners can expect to…

I am a huge fan of the show Breaking Bad, and while visiting Albuquerque, I had the chance to run around and see a number of the filming sites. It was fun to kick around the city either way, but visiting these places in person was incredible. I want to start by first giving credit to an individual and his website for providing all of the location addresses and giving me the motivation to start this website. The website is Roaming Robert, and he did all of the work for this tour a handful of years ago; I just needed…

In the recovery world, November is Gratitude Month and as one of those people, gratitude is critical to my recovery. You can probably find hundreds of definitions of what gratitude is and what it means, but simply put, gratitude is the appreciation of the good things in our lives, big or small. It’s also an action word. It is a powerful emotion that can have a positive impact on our mental and physical health, as well as our relationships. For people in recovery, gratitude can be a particularly helpful tool and as mentioned before, it’s critical for many of us. …

This week we have…Dr. Sarah Michaud! She’s back! We had her on the podcast for Episode 72 (definitely listen to it if you haven’t already) and she was a lot of fun and very informative. She’s become a friend over the last year and we wanted to talk to her again and share what she’s been up to. We talked about recovery, trauma, codependency, relationships, meetings, podcasts, and anything else we could think of. An hour and a half isn’t enough time with her and she will definitely be back. SOBER NOT MATURE: Imagine two regular guys, living life to…

In this compelling episode of the “Sober Not Mature” podcast, hosts Bill and Mike sit down with guest John M. to explore the profound journey of sobriety, peer pressure, and the intricate tapestry of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). With insightful reflections and raw anecdotes, this conversation delves into the essence of recovery, the importance of support systems, and the ever-lasting impact of sobriety on personal lives. The Influence of Peer Pressure and Social Drinking One of the central themes discussed is the peer pressure linked to drinking, particularly in social settings and around women. Bill and John openly discuss the societal…

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Sober Not Mature! In Episode 121, titled “Filling Your Holes With John From Sober Speak,” hosts Bill and Mike engage in a deep-dive conversation with John, a longtime member of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and the creator of the widely acclaimed Sober Speak podcast. In this episode, the trio covers a multitude of topics, from the importance of community in sobriety to the intricacies of maintaining a successful podcast. Here, we recap the main themes, insightful discussions, and key takeaways from this impactful conversation. The Importance of a Digital Presence Early in the episode, Bill…

As I think back, I have never had any real patience. From the time I was a young child through my adult life, I’ve always been about instant gratification. I wanted everything now, and if I didn’t get what I wanted, I threw a fit many times.   As a child, those fits were tantrums, but as an adult, sometimes I would lash out or maybe even let it percolate and then blow up at some other point on some unsuspecting individual.   As I’m writing this, I’m just past my 14th anniversary of sobriety, and patience is still not always a…

The winter solstice has passed, and for many, the festive cheer has faded, replaced by a familiar foe: the winter doldrums. These feelings of low mood, lethargy, and decreased motivation can be tough for anyone, but for those in recovery, they can pose a unique challenge. Shorter days, colder weather, and holiday bills can all conspire to chip away at our resolve. The urge to seek comfort in familiar, coping mechanisms can feel amplified. With a little preparation and guidance, we can trudge positively through the winter blues and emerge stronger on the other side. Whether this is your first…

In the realm of recovery, it’s not uncommon to hear stories of individuals wrestling with their own personal demons. This struggle is at the heart of the latest episode from the “Sober Not Mature” podcast, where hosts Mike and Bill engage in candid discussions about addiction recovery, using humor as a tool to help others navigate through their own journeys. On this particular episode, they had the pleasure of hosting two extraordinary guests: Chris Dreisbach and Shannon Moore. Their stories are not just about sobriety; they’re about resilience, determination, and the power of transformation. Chris Dreisbach, known for his inspiring…

You’re sober and it’s the Holidays. There are work events, gatherings with friends, and of course time with the family. Although all of these events can be with different groups of people, there is often one constant; alcohol. Whether this is your first Holiday Season sober, or you have many years under your belt, this time of year can be challenging. We want to celebrate and gosh darn it, we deserve to celebrate, but how do we do it safely and sober? I have some suggestions. This will be my 14th sober Holiday Season and I’m not “fixed” or “cured,”…

On this episode of Sober Not Mature, we have Carly and Breeze from @trustyourmess_age. We had a great conversation with them and it was amazing how much we all have in common. They are young and we are old, but we all ended up in the same place. Kind of cool. You can follow Carly on IG @carlyannmariereed and Breeze @_breezexx. Carly and Breeze gave us some background and then they told us about this wonderful thing that they are doing called, Trust Your Message. which aims to inspire sobriety, encourage recovery, and offer valuable resources and personal insights to…

The article title makes it sound like a bad thing, but I had a great time alone and sober in Memphis. My trip started out as a plan to see a friend of mine in Oklahoma City and as soon as I found out that it was a 12-hour drive, I decided that I would make some stops on the way there and on the way back. “What is a cool and convenient place to stop on the way from NW Indiana to Oklahoma City?” It was not “on the way,” but Memphis is a place that I have wanted…

Hazelden publishes several great books for people in recovery. I would go as far as to say that they are the authority on recovery literature. Below are three of their most popular books. I’ll give you a “textbook” review of each and then explain why it is important to us. 24 Hours a Day: This classic daily meditation book has been helping people in recovery for over 75 years. Each entry is just a few pages long and focuses on a single theme related to recovery. The meditations are written in a conversational style that feels like you are talking…