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    TIME TAKES TIME

    Time Takes Time: How To Have Fun In Sobriety

    Lane KennedyBy Lane KennedyJune 19, 20222 Mins Read
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    Today, I’m joined by four other long-term recovery friends, and we’re talking and sharing about having fun in recovery. How do we do that?

    In this episode, we share about:

    • Learning how to have fun.
    • Living on purpose is FUN.
    • How do you stop caring what others think of your fun?
    • Moving in sobriety, AKA geographics.
    • Disney Land is the Happiest Place on Earth.

    Join the community for the FUN challenge now; you don’t want to miss this; so much fun!

    Host: Lane Kennedy, Founder of the Connected Calm Life @lane_kennedy_

    Special Guests in this episode: Alysse Bryson @alysseinthecity, Founder of The Sober Curator; Dave Yates @yatescomedy; Veronica Jvalli @veronicajvalli, Author of Soberful, and Danijela Kovac, Founder of Teetotaler Wines @teetotalerwines


    WALK YOUR TALK: Sex & The City Trends Teetotaler (Wines) & The Sober Community Cheers! Does It Taste Great? Abso-f*cking-lutely!


    TIME TAKES TIME: This is a limited edition series by Connected Calm Life Coach & Sober Curator Lane Kennedy. On the 1st Thursday of every month, you can listen to or watch one full hour of content featuring a rotating panel of guests recovering from substance use disorders. Our definition of long-term recovery is 10+ or more years.

    You can also check out the TIME TAKES TIME series on YouTube

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    Lane Kennedy has been sober since 1996 and is the author of Sobriety for Dummies. As a Senior Contributor to The Sober Curator, she writes about long-term recovery, stress, nervous system regulation and what happens after we stop escaping our lives and begin learning how to live inside them. Her work at Lane Kennedy focuses on stress, capacity and nervous system regulation, and she is the creator of Sober in San Francisco, an intentional-living and travel project about slowing down, noticing more and experiencing life with alcohol no longer at the center of it.

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