Author: Megan Wright

Dearest Sober Reader, If you’re searching for a salacious distraction to carry you through the winter months, I should think you could do much worse than viewing the first half of the latest Bridgerton season. With the early episodes centered on Benedict Bridgerton, we quickly learn of his excessive imbibing and ‘rakish’ ways. Whispers float through the halls of high society while Benedict experiments in every conceivable manner, both in the bottle and the bed. He seems determined to conceal his true tapestry of emotions – building a wall between all others and his heart, such that many a gentleman…

On a flawless summer weekend in early August 2025, more than 80 members of Recovery Beyond gathered on Washington State’s Olympic Peninsula for a campout that will be remembered for years to come. Nestled between towering evergreens and the wild Pacific coastline, the gathering became much more than just a weekend retreat — it was a living testament to the power of community, shared resilience and the beauty of sober fun. The group set up camp not far from Rialto Beach, one of the Olympic National Park’s most beloved stretches of shoreline. With its iconic sea stacks rising dramatically from…

One of our very own Sober Curator contributors wanted to know… Do people really still take online courses on their own, or do they prefer [learning] communities online/in person? Hi Curious Curator! Well, you are asking the right question in this high-speed, tech-infused world of ours! Let’s break this down, shall we? First off, online courses are like a double-shot espresso — fast, efficient, and straight to the point. You can zoom through them at your own pace, with zero distractions from chatty classmates or that one teacher who loves to hear themselves talk. Sounds dreamy, right? But, just like…

Hiya Mrs. Wright! I’ve got family visiting soon, and I am in a dilemma. My sister-in-law, whom I’m not close with, will stay at my house with her husband for a few days. It is known in the family that she has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. While I no longer drink alcohol, my husband does, so we have a balance of NA and full-proof options in the house. I am anxious about my sister-in-law drinking too much at my home or when we’re out to dinner. Is it acceptable to approach this topic with her? Or should I stay out…

Greetings, MRS. (W)RIGHT! Hey, my name is Jordan. I read your column on The Sober Curator and had a question that I’d love your feedback on. Since becoming sober 12 years ago, even to this day, I still find it hard to meet fellow sober folks that I have literally anything in common with. I’ve met plenty of nice people at most of the groups I attend, but when it all comes down to it, although they all mean well, I don’t have much in common with them.   Most people are older than me; I’m 42. Most of the folks…

Hey there, Sobriety Superstars! Welcome to ASK MRS. (W)RIGHT, the most authentic corner of the web where you can find a little inspiration, a little laughter, and a whole lot of love for this incredible, wild ride we call sobriety. Whether you’re freshly off the booze, a couple of years in, or just toying with the idea of kicking that old habit to the curb, MRS. (W)RIGHT is here to guide you through the good, the bad, and the gloriously messy moments of life without substances. If you’re wondering, “Why should I listen to this newfangled advice column?” Well, let…

When I entered the realm of the ‘chronically ill’ one year ago, I felt unprepared for all the changes and emotions I would encounter along my journey. The medical world is fraught with minefields like broken expectations, grief, loss, insecurity, fear…all the danger zones for a person in recovery like me. However, as time passed and my perspective grew, I realized that my situation felt familiar. This was precisely what I had experienced in early recovery. Since my loved ones have learned more about my disease (likely in way too much detail), I have been told numerous times how brave…

Fifteen years of sobriety. A lot of changes can be made in fifteen years. Amends can be offered, responsibility can be rebuilt, relationships can be renewed, structure can be woven into life, and blessings can multiply each year. I was absolutely on top of the world. I earned degrees and financial stability, learned to be a reliable mother, married an astounding man, and won the lottery of dream jobs, bringing adventure-laden recovery to others. And then… BAM! Just as I felt I had reached the peak, the rug was yanked from beneath me with as much force as those jail…

Since I was a little kid, I’ve been fascinated by sharks. I remember visiting the home of our family’s dear friends on the south side of Chicago (go White Sox!) as a young kiddo. This family’s kids were like siblings to me and my sister, and I considered the eldest boy my BFF. I thought it was sooooo cool that he had a fish tank that hosted a little mini shark (bear in mind that freshwater aquarium sharks are pretty much little catfish that look like sharks because of their dorsal fins and forked tails – but to an 8-year-old,…

I was in a new job, a new town, and a new recovery community. My tried-and-true gym, Anytime Fitness, had a local franchise, which offered some comfort in its purple familiarity (despite being a relatively rundown and neglected club). While pumping away one morning before work, I noticed a sign by the office door advertising the opportunity to join an ATF team at an upcoming Tough Mudder. I had heard of mud runs, and they always sounded pretty fun (especially since the concept reminded me of caving). I’m a hopelessly impulsive person, so I signed up on the spot. I…

September is National Recovery Month! In celebration, Recovery Beyond put together a fun way to meet others in recovery, share your skills, and put your knowledge to the test in our Recovery Month Bingo. Everyone must register on the Community Calendar to receive their bingo card. You will receive your bingo card on September 1st, depending on your registration date. For example, if you register on September 7th, you will receive your bingo card on the next business day. The rules are simple. Complete a winning combination on your bingo card. You can play through the month to find your…

GOING THE DISTANCE…Did you ever start training for a marathon just over two weeks after your last cigarette? Yeah…that’s not easy. But let’s back it up a bit… After abstaining from alcohol, marijuana, and any other substance that might take my mind on a road trip, it started to bother me that I was still a smoker. And let’s be clear, I wasn’t just a smoker…I was a hard-core, chain-smoking, can’t make it 30 minutes, everyone is waiting outside the front door because I’m having a smoke before we go inside this building, kind of smoker. Indeed, it was incredible…

ADVENTURE!! A few years ago, my kiddo was super into the revamped version of She-Ra. There is a pirate character named Seahawk who tends to set his own ship on fire (this is an aside, but an amusing one) and whenever the team of friends sets off to fight the evil enemy, he yells “Adventure!” with a bombastic tone. I loved this character and now, whenever my family and I hit the road for something new and interesting, one of us comes out with our best Sea Hawk impersonation. I absolutely thrive on adventure and new experiences. There are those…