In a world obsessed with cocktails and wine culture, finding your tribe of like-minded, sober-curious friends isn’t always easy. Thankfully, The Sober Curator has your back every week with a fresh episode of THIS JUST IN—a no-B.S. roundup of all things inspiring, surprising, and delightfully alcohol-free. From jaw-dropping personal transformations to exclusive events that don’t require a designated driver, this week’s episode, hosted by Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly, is packed with reasons to celebrate sobriety as a vibe, not just a lifestyle.
In this recap, we’ll unpack the week’s top stories, gift guides, must-attend events, and so much more—from a “junkie to judge” memoir to RuPaul’s stunning journey. Ready to trade in happy hour for a happier life? Let’s dive in.
From Rock Bottom to the Bench: Mary Beth O’Connor’s Memoir
Kicking off the episode, Alysse spotlights From Junkie to Judge by Mary Beth O’Connor—a memoir with more twists than a reality show finale. Once a meth addict struggling on the edges of society, O’Connor’s transformation into a respected federal judge is nothing short of cinematic. This story isn’t just about recovery; it’s about reinvention, growth, and hope for anyone who feels the odds are stacked against them. As Alysse puts it, Mary Beth’s metamorphosis has “more growth than Pete Davidson’s dating history.” If you need proof that it’s never too late to reclaim your narrative, this read should jump straight to the top of your “Quitlit” wishlist.
Sober Soundtrack: The Rise of Jonas Connor
If you think sobriety means trading your edge for dullness, teen music prodigy Jonas Connor is here to shatter that illusion. Only 15 years old and already serving up tracks like “Father in a Bible” and “Peace with Pain,” Jonas’s lyrics pack the emotional punch of artists decades older. He’s “more soul than a Motown reunion,” his work resonates with anyone navigating the emotional rollercoaster of recovery or simply life itself. Think Adele and Sam Smith vibes… but with a Gen Z journal twist.
Sober Gift Guide: Thoughtful Ideas Beyond Candle Fatigue
Nothing says “I see you” like a gift that doesn’t involve a bottle of cabernet or a snarky wine glass. The Sober Curator’s latest gift guide drops wine openers and scented candles in favor of chic mocktail sets, luxe self-care bundles, and other meaningful presents. Finally, a list that acknowledges and celebrates sobriety—not just as something you endure, but as something worth honoring with style.
Sharper Than Your Aunt’s Side-Eye: Comebacks for Nosy Nellies
Let’s face it—sometimes, the most draining thing about being sober isn’t skipping happy hour, it’s fielding awkward questions. The podcast drops gold-standard one-liners for those moments, from “I prefer my drama on Netflix, not in my liver,” to “I’m already high on life and caffeine.” The next time someone prods you about skipping the booze, come armed with these comebacks (and enjoy watching the conversation pivot).
Sober Retreats & Events: Where Memories Aren’t Blurry
Being social doesn’t stop when you get sober—it gets better! This week’s event lineup has literally something for everyone:
- Denver: Sober tailgaters unite at the Rockies vs. Mets game—no beer, just pure fun and actual memories.
- Tacoma: Get your creativity flowing at a zero-proof paint-and-sip, Brushes and Bevies. Because who needs red wine to paint happy little accidents?
- Minnesota: Seek peace at the Sound Bath Float, where yoga mats and healing vibes replace shots and hangovers.
- NYC: Sans Bar brings you a booze-free networking night during Tech Week, complete with a visionary panel and an alcohol-free cocktail in hand.
- Portland: Connect with nature (and maybe Bigfoot?) on a Mount Tabor hike, led by sober enthusiasts who know adventure doesn’t need alcohol.
Celeb Sober Spotlight: RuPaul’s Authentic Journey
The episode’s showstopper is none other than RuPaul—drag icon and a leading light in the sober community. With 26 years clean, RuPaul’s memoir House of Hidden Meanings opens up about using substances as a child and the journey to sobriety inspired by love. Here’s the ultimate proof that thriving in sobriety isn’t just possible—it’s fabulous.

Keep the Conversation Going
Sobriety isn’t just ditching the drinks; it’s about reclaiming your narrative, living intentionally, and finding joy in unexpected places. Stay tuned to The Sober Curator for community, resources, and weekly reminders that the best stories aren’t found at the bottom of a wine glass. As Alysse Bryson closes each show: “Getting sober matters. Staying sober matters more.”
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