I recently had the privilege of joining Emma McAdam on her “Therapy in a Nutshell” podcast, where we delved into the intricate connections between anxiety, suppressed anger, and codependency. This conversation illuminated the profound ways in which our internal emotional landscapes influence our behaviors and relationships.​
The Hidden Layers of Anxiety
One of the central themes we explored was how anxiety often masks deeper, unacknowledged emotions, particularly suppressed anger. It’s not uncommon for individuals to experience anxiety attacks or panic attacks without realizing that these episodes may stem from unexpressed anger or frustration. This suppression can lead to a cycle where unmet needs and unspoken grievances manifest as anxiety, further complicating one’s emotional well-being.​
Codependency and Caretaking: A Delicate Balance
Our discussion also touched on the concept of codependency, where individuals prioritize others’ needs over their own, often to their detriment. This caretaking behavior, while seemingly altruistic, can be a manifestation of anxiety about others’ feelings and reactions. By focusing excessively on others, we might inadvertently neglect our own needs, leading to resentment and internalized anger. Recognizing this pattern is the first step toward healing and establishing healthier relationships.​
The Power of Assertiveness
We emphasized the importance of assertiveness in breaking free from these cycles. Being assertive involves clearly and respectfully communicating our needs and boundaries, allowing others to take responsibility for their actions and emotions. This shift not only fosters healthier interactions but also alleviates symptoms of depression and anxiety associated with codependent behaviors.​
A Journey Toward Healing
Engaging in this dialogue with Emma reinforced my belief in the transformative power of self-awareness and assertiveness. By understanding the roots of our anxiety and embracing our right to express needs and set boundaries, we can cultivate more fulfilling relationships and a balanced emotional life.​
I invite you to watch the full interview below, where we delve deeper into these topics and share insights that may resonate with your experiences.
Therapy in a Nutshell Podcast: The Hidden Root Cause of Anxiety and Depression – Codependency | Dr. Sarah Michaud
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