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    #QUITLIT REVIEW: Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

    Alysse BrysonBy Alysse BrysonOctober 30, 20232 Mins Read
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    The Sober Curator Contributors talk about Matthew Perry’s new memoir Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing, along with Perry’s interview with Diane Sawyer. As one of Friends stars in the late 1990s, Perry struggled with alcohol and opiate addiction very quietly before it took over his life. As people who have consumed a ton of #QUITLIT and attended countless 12-Step meetings, the Sober Contributors give their impressions of the book and Perry’s honesty in depicting the program and sober living.

    Sober Curator Pro Tip: Each Sober Curator Contributor came dressed in a Friends theme costume. Which one was your favorite?


    Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing, a Memoir by Matthew Perry

    If you’re a fan of memoirs, you will want to check out Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing by Matthew Perry. This is an intimate look into the life and career of beloved actor Matthew Perry as he chronicles his journey from a struggling actor to a successful one — with all the highs and lows along the way. The book is written in an honest and reflective style so readers can experience fame’s ups and downs. From amusing anecdotes to heart-wrenching stories, this book has something for everyone. It’s an inspiring reminder that no matter how difficult life gets — we can always push through it with a positive attitude and determination.

    We HIGHLY recommend listening to the book on Audible and reading it by Matthew Perry himself.


    Eternally Amy & The Boozeless Book Club Reviews Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing, a Memoir by Matthew Perry

    The Sobees #QUITLIT Score: 4 out of 5


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