From plant-based vapes to Depeche Mode’s decades-long sobriety, The Sober Curator’s latest episode dishes out the top stories, events, and celebrities redefining recovery with wit, style, and plenty of zero-proof bubbles.
The Rise of Plant-Based Vapes: More Placebo than Puff Daddy?
This week, The Sober Curator crew, Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly, dive straight into the world of Ripple Vapes—plant-based, buzz-free alternatives claiming to offer all the spa-like relaxation with none of the substance-based consequences. They describe these vapes as “spa day in your mouth,” but with “zero actual effects, like vibes only. No buzz.” It’s a gentle reminder that not every wellness trend packs a punch in recovery, nor does it need to.
Sober Celebs & the “SmartLess” Effect
Ever found yourself secretly sober-stalking celebrities? You’re not alone! The hosts highlight the podcast “SmartLess,” praising its candid conversations about sobriety as “your new guilty pleasure.” From Jason Bateman to Will Arnett, these episodes feature emotional breakthroughs and the kind of open dialogue that the sober community craves. Think podcast potluck but with “emotional breakthroughs instead of crusty casseroles.” If you’re seeking inspiration or relatable stories, this star-studded roundup is where vulnerability meets validation.
Depeche Mode’s Sober Encore: Goth Never Dies, It Detoxes
Depeche Mode fans (old and new) can’t get enough of focusing on frontman Dave Gahan’s 28-year sobriety streak. The episode’s hosts cheekily note that Gahan’s sober run is “longer than most TikTokers have been alive”—a true testament to long-term recovery. Gahan proves that goth style and sobriety aren’t mutually exclusive; eyeliner, synths, and Pellegrino coexist in glamorous harmony. As they put it: “Goth never dies. It just detoxes.”
The Power of Boundaries: “Let Them” Is the New Nope
Another must-read featured on this week’s podcast is about boundaries: “If your boundaries are looser than your ex’s definition of casual, this article’s your new bible.” The episode highlights the empowering principle of letting people live their chaos while you maintain your recovery and peace. The mantra “Not my monkeys, not my circus” is transformed into a rallying cry for anyone in the sober community learning to prioritize their well-being over controlling what’s out of their hands.
Soberness Story Hour: Broadway Meets Burn Book, Without the Hangover
The spotlight on New York City’s Soberness Story Hour is a refreshing celebration of collective healing: “Think Broadway meets Burn Book, but make it healing.” This event is described as group healing complete with stage lights—no shame, no expensive cocktails to cry into, just real stories and real connections. It’s proof that recovery isn’t just something you do quietly in the background; it can be showcased, celebrated, and shared.
Sober Sip Spotlight: Sir Elton John
Take a bow for this week’s Sober Sip Spotlight celebrity: Sir Elton John. The hosts are quick to remind us that Elton is “38 years sober and still serving rhinestone realness.” From turbulent ‘80s chaos to knighthood and Barbie doll immortality, Elton John epitomizes recovery with brilliance and flair. His story proves that a life in recovery can be both glamorous and deeply authentic.
Sober Events Round Up: From Supper Clubs to Paint Nights
The episode ends with a whirlwind tour of upcoming sober events—from a women’s supper club in San Diego to an art-filled clean and sober Paint & Sip in Sonoma, and even a trauma-informed workshop for kids in Bellevue. These events prove that sober living is anything but boring, offering everything from creativity and connection to laughter and learning—all without a drop of booze.
- Sober Supper Club – San Diego, CA – June 20th
- Free Bellevue Children’s Program Two-Day Workshop – Hazelden Betty Ford – Seattle metro area – June 21st + 22nd
- Clean and Sober Paint and Sip – Sonoma, CA – 6/21
- Denver Open Art Studio: Art, Community, and Recovery – Denver, CO – June 22d
- Raising the Bar: Women Changemakers in Non-Alcoholic Innovation – Minneapolis, MN – June 25th
Hosted by Alysse Bryson & Tamar Routly, and produced by Podcast Impact Studio, The Sober Curator Podcast brings sober lifestyle, pop culture, & recovery to the mic. Alongside Alysse & Tamar, rotating global contributors join as co-hosts to explore zero-proof drinks, sober travel, quit lit, entertainment, & mental health. This is sober media with personality, perspective, & a glitter bomb of honesty. Sober-curious or living alcohol-free, we’ve got you! We’re not here to help you get sober. We’re here to help you live sober: and love it.
Why do so many films glorify binge drinking?
In this episode, Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly dive into how media impacts our perceptions of alcohol, aided by insights from Professor Ted Mandell. They explore how movies and TV shows depict alcohol consumption, often glamorizing binge drinking while ignoring the dangers. With a mix of nostalgia, frustration, and hope, the discussion uncovers the powerful but sometimes harmful narratives ingrained in our culture.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Films often portray binge drinking as glamorous and without consequence.
Media can influence and normalize unhealthy drinking habits.
Cultural and media narratives surrounding alcohol are often unrealistic.
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