In a world obsessed with cocktails and wine culture, finding your tribe of like-minded, sober-curious friends isn’t always easy. Thankfully, The Sober Curator has your back every week with a fresh episode of THIS JUST IN—a no-B.S. roundup of all things inspiring, surprising, and delightfully alcohol-free. From jaw-dropping personal transformations to exclusive events that don’t require a designated driver, this week’s episode, hosted by Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly, is packed with reasons to celebrate sobriety as a vibe, not just a lifestyle.
In this recap, we’ll unpack the week’s top stories, gift guides, must-attend events, and so much more—from a “junkie to judge” memoir to RuPaul’s stunning journey. Ready to trade in happy hour for a happier life? Let’s dive in.
From Rock Bottom to the Bench: Mary Beth O’Connor’s Memoir
Kicking off the episode, Alysse spotlights From Junkie to Judge by Mary Beth O’Connor—a memoir with more twists than a reality show finale. Once a meth addict struggling on the edges of society, O’Connor’s transformation into a respected federal judge is nothing short of cinematic. This story isn’t just about recovery; it’s about reinvention, growth, and hope for anyone who feels the odds are stacked against them. As Alysse puts it, Mary Beth’s metamorphosis has “more growth than Pete Davidson’s dating history.” If you need proof that it’s never too late to reclaim your narrative, this read should jump straight to the top of your “Quitlit” wishlist.
Sober Soundtrack: The Rise of Jonas Connor
If you think sobriety means trading your edge for dullness, teen music prodigy Jonas Connor is here to shatter that illusion. Only 15 years old and already serving up tracks like “Father in a Bible” and “Peace with Pain,” Jonas’s lyrics pack the emotional punch of artists decades older. He’s “more soul than a Motown reunion,” his work resonates with anyone navigating the emotional rollercoaster of recovery or simply life itself. Think Adele and Sam Smith vibes… but with a Gen Z journal twist.
Sober Gift Guide: Thoughtful Ideas Beyond Candle Fatigue
Nothing says “I see you” like a gift that doesn’t involve a bottle of cabernet or a snarky wine glass. The Sober Curator’s latest gift guide drops wine openers and scented candles in favor of chic mocktail sets, luxe self-care bundles, and other meaningful presents. Finally, a list that acknowledges and celebrates sobriety—not just as something you endure, but as something worth honoring with style.
Sharper Than Your Aunt’s Side-Eye: Comebacks for Nosy Nellies
Let’s face it—sometimes, the most draining thing about being sober isn’t skipping happy hour, it’s fielding awkward questions. The podcast drops gold-standard one-liners for those moments, from “I prefer my drama on Netflix, not in my liver,” to “I’m already high on life and caffeine.” The next time someone prods you about skipping the booze, come armed with these comebacks (and enjoy watching the conversation pivot).
Sober Retreats & Events: Where Memories Aren’t Blurry
Celeb Sober Spotlight: RuPaul’s Authentic Journey
The episode’s showstopper is none other than RuPaul—drag icon and a leading light in the sober community. With 26 years clean, RuPaul’s memoir House of Hidden Meanings opens up about using substances as a child and the journey to sobriety inspired by love. Here’s the ultimate proof that thriving in sobriety isn’t just possible—it’s fabulous.
Keep the Conversation Going
Sobriety isn’t just ditching the drinks; it’s about reclaiming your narrative, living intentionally, and finding joy in unexpected places. Stay tuned to The Sober Curator for community, resources, and weekly reminders that the best stories aren’t found at the bottom of a wine glass. As Alysse Bryson closes each show: “Getting sober matters. Staying sober matters more.”
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In this heartfelt episode of The Sober Curator, host Alysse Bryson is joined by a full lineup of Sober Curator contributors—Amy Liz Harrison, Alexandra Nyman, Megan Swan, Kim Parsley, and Dr. Sarah Michaud—to explore the life and legacy of Matthew Perry through a newly released documentary. The conversation delves into the documentary's focus on Perry's addiction battles, his recovery efforts, and his lasting impact. The episode also touches upon how Hollywood treats addiction and the role of documentaries in shaping these narratives.
Timestamps:
[00:00] – Introduction & Alysse Bryson's connection to Matthew Perry
[02:01] – Overview: Matthew Perry and the documentary
[03:16] – Key highlights of the documentary: addiction and recovery themes
[15:04] – The financial aspect of rehabilitation and its exploitation
[21:13] – Conversations about Big Pharma and harm reduction
[31:00] – Codependency within the circle of celebrities
[34:44] – The documentary's mixed narrative and impact on the community
[38:06] – Remembering Matthew Perry's legacy and the humor amidst tragedy
Resources & Links:
-Documentary: Matthew Perry: A Hollywood Tragedy
-Organization: Matthew Perry Foundation
-Review: ”Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing” by Alysse Bryson
-Review: ”Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing” by Amy Liz Harrison
–Alcohol + Substance Use Disorder Guide
–Recovery Nonprofit Resource Guide
–LBGTQ+ Recovery Resource Guide
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Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, and joined by Sober Curator contributors, The Sober Curator Podcast* delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover, we’ve got you covered. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.
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SOBER POP CULTURE at The Sober Curator is where mainstream trends meet the vibrant world of sobriety. We serve up a mix of movie, podcast, fashion, and book recommendations alongside alcohol-free cocktails, celebrity features, and pop culture buzz—all with a sober twist.
We’re here to shatter the “sobriety is boring” myth with a mash-up of 80s neon, 90s hip-hop edge, early 2000s bling, and today’s hottest trends. From celebrity shoutouts to red-carpet style inspo, this is where sober is as chic as it is fun. To the celebs using their platform for good—our Sober Pop Trucker hats are off to you!
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