As I sit here in the passenger seat of my partner of nine year’s car, I am watching route 80 blur into the background as we leave the stark quite of the Poconos to return to the hustle and the bustle of the city. I have some fabulous stilettos to fill for this column, however, I am but a mere guest who will be popping in here from time to time. Who am I? I am LadyCat, a fashion designer based in NYC and founder of the Break Free Foundation, which my friend and colleague, Kate Vitela, has written about…