I hit seven years of sobriety on February 10, 2025. When I got sober, one…
Rewired Sober with Kate Vitela
Welcome to Rewired Sober, the podcast where science meets soul on the journey of women’s recovery and empowerment. Hosted by Kate Vitela, RN, a certified addiction and psychiatric-mental-health nurse coach, sober since 2018, this show dives deep into the neuroscience of addiction, healing, and habit change—and the spiritual awakening that follows.
Each episode blends real talk, humor, and motivation to help you understand how your brain rewires, how your body heals, and how your soul remembers who she is. From neuroplasticity and emotional regulation to intuition, self-trust, and radical self-love, you’ll learn practical tools and mindset shifts to stay sober, inspired, and grounded.
Because recovery isn’t just about not drinking—it’s about rewiring how you think, feel, and live. This is where science meets soul, and where women come to remember their power, their purpose, and their truth.
Rewired Sober
Welcome to Rewired Sober, the podcast where science meets soul on the journey of women’s recovery and empowerment. Hosted by Kate Vitela, RN, a certified addiction and psychiatric-mental-health nurse coach sober since 2018, this show dives deep into the neuroscience of addiction, healing, and habit change—and the spiritual awakening that follows.
Each episode blends real talk, humor, and motivation to help you understand how your brain rewires, how your body heals, and how your soul remembers who she is. From neuroplasticity and emotional regulation to intuition, self-trust, and radical self-love, you’ll learn practical tools and mindset shifts to stay sober, inspired, and grounded.
Because recovery isn’t just about not drinking—it’s about rewiring how you think, feel, and live. This is where science meets soul, and where women come to remember their power, their purpose, and their truth.
EP 55: The Devil We Know: Why Sobriety Feels Uncomfortable Before It Feels Free
The Devil We Know: Why Sobriety Feels Uncomfortable Before It Feels Free
In this episode of Rewired Sober, Kate explores one of the most misunderstood parts of sobriety: liminal spaces — the in-between seasons where the old way no longer fits, but the new way hasn’t fully formed yet.
These are the moments when you know you made the right choice…
but your nervous system still craves the relief of certainty.
Using both neuroscience and lived experience, Kate unpacks why the brain prefers the “devil we know” — familiar patterns, predictable outcomes, even familiar pain — over the uncertainty that comes with real change.
This episode also includes a live teaching pulled directly from Kate’s Rewired Sober group, where she speaks candidly about:
- wanting to want sobriety
- why early sobriety can feel strangely effortful
- and why feeling unsettled doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong
If you’ve ever thought “Why does this still feel weird?” — this conversation will land.
This episode is for you if:
- You’re outgrowing alcohol but don’t feel fully at home without it yet
- You find yourself wanting answers instead of wanting to sit in the unknown
- You feel frustrated that sobriety still requires intention
- You’re in a transition season and questioning whether you’re “behind”
In this episode, Kate explores:
- What liminal spaces are and why they’re unavoidable in sobriety
- Why the nervous system values predictability over freedom
- How familiar habits create a false sense of safety
- The urge to rush certainty — and why it’s a stress response
- Why repetition, regulation, and time are what actually rewire the brain
- How staying in the middle is not weakness, but integration
Key takeaway:
Transformation doesn’t happen in the decision.
It happens in the middle.
You don’t rush liminal spaces. You listen in them.
They are where your nervous system learns how to live in truth — without anesthesia.
If sobriety feels right and unfamiliar at the same time, this episode will help you understand why — and remind you that this phase isn’t something to escape. It’s something to move through.
About Rewired Sober:
Rewired Sober is a science- and soul-based recovery space for women who are ready to understand their brain, trust themselves, and build a sober life that actually fits.
Learn more about Kate’s group coaching, courses, and resources at the links in the show notes.
Rewired Sober Group Coaching Space Is Now Open: Start anytime and get 3 months of guidance designed for women in sobriety. You’ll get instant access to the full program, plus weekly live coaching sessions to help you rewire your brain, heal old patterns, and stay consistent. Enroll here: https://kate-vitela.mykajabi.com/rewired-sober-coaching-program
Connect with Kate @rewiredsober on all social media platforms:
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November 4, 2025
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Kate has been an RN in the Pacific Northwest for over 20 years. After getting sober she shifted her nursing career towards mental health and dug in hard into the recovery space. She is board certified in psychiatric, mental-health nursing and pursuing her board certification in addiction nursing. Kate works countless hours as the Director of Nursing of an inpatient behavioral health recovery facility. However, she never steps foot inside the locked hallways of her workplace without walking the talk.
