“Give people permission not to drink, and watch the trip transform.” That’s the quiet thesis humming beneath Ryan Lee’s story — a story that begins in tech sales and a hospital bed, and then sprints toward fresh air, steep trails and a passport full of second chances.
Ryan didn’t just walk away from a lucrative career; he walked toward himself. Early sobriety peeled away the “I’m fine, I’m performing” armor, exposing a truth many high achievers recognize: survival isn’t the same as fulfillment. “I decided to quit that job… I need fulfillment now, not just survival,” he recalls, describing the moment the old patterns — overwork, stimulants to push through — had to go.
Travel arrived as both salve and structure. New places, long hikes, a beginner’s mind in motion — these became an ethical replacement for the thrill-seeking of addiction. Instead of nightlife, there was sunrise. Instead of numbing, there was presence. “It’s been a big key to my sobriety… being in a new place, going on amazing hikes… it scratches the same itch,” he says.
The business model emerged from a bad group trip: alcohol derailed the vibe, and the solution felt obvious in hindsight — design the same adventures, but sober. That choice reframed everything. He interviews every first-time traveler. Not to gatekeep, but to protect the experience. One misaligned personality can torpedo a week. “I can design the most amazing itinerary. But if there’s one shithead in the group… it ruins it for everyone,” he says, deadpan and correct.
The result is Capsule Adventures: all-inclusive, zero-proof expeditions where logistics fade and connection takes center stage. Airport pickup to drop-off. Guides, tickets, transport, meals, lodging — handled. The days are full: hikes, markets, summits, swims. And there’s built-in free time — because presence needs pockets of quiet, too.
Community is the real itinerary. When everyone agrees to the same container — no substances, shared goals — the group gels faster. Strangers turn into travel buddies; sometimes into future roommates on trips Ryan doesn’t even lead. (He’s fine with that. Mostly.) “Provide people a network of sober travel buddies,” he says. Connection is the point. The scenery is the bonus.
If you’re picturing a quiet retreat with daily meetings, recalibrate. Ryan’s trips are adventurous. Machu Picchu started small; now he’s taking bigger groups. Dream boards include the Amazon and big summits like Kilimanjaro. Demographically, it skews ~60% women, median age early 30s — a reflection of safety and vibe as much as fitness. “No creepy-dude energy” is an unspoken feature of the model.
There’s also a five-year vision: empower a guide team and open a nature-based recovery center — think Puerto Rico, trails for days — because early sobriety and outdoor immersion are a potent combo. “Being in nature… sparked something within me,” he says. Put differently: your nervous system can exhale when your phone can’t grab a signal.
The practicals are delightfully nerdy. AirPods. A food scale for macro phases. Sometimes an Instant Pot — especially in high-altitude cities like Cusco, where the boiling point drops and lentils stage a protest. Packing advice? Ditch the clunky boots; trail runners (or legit adventure sandals) save energy and joints. If the U.S. military says a pound on your foot feels like ten on your back, why strap ankle anvils to vacation? Exactly.
Maybe the lesson isn’t “travel more.” Maybe it’s “travel aligned.” Vet the vibe. Choose presence over performance. Snap your photos, then post at night so your brain stays on the mountain instead of the metrics. And if you’re sober — or just sober-curious about your next trip — consider this your permission slip. The opposite of addiction is connection, and the world is very, very wide.
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In this gripping episode, Alysse sits down with filmmaker Benjamin Flaherty for a powerful conversation about the business behind addiction recovery — and why too many families are left carrying shame, confusion, and financial devastation while trying to save their loved ones. Benjamin’s documentary exposes the economics, ethics, and emotional fallout inside the modern treatment industry, while also honoring the parents, advocates, and survivors who continue fighting for change.
From medically assisted treatment debates to the insurance inequalities that shape who gets quality care, this episode goes deeper than most sober conversations dare to go. It’s raw, urgent, and grounded in truth — the kind of discussion that can only happen in a space built for honesty.
Takeaways:
Families aren’t alone. Many parents attend screenings thinking their child’s exploitation or treatment experience was “their fault” — Benjamin’s film shows the systemic patterns behind the pain.
Recovery has an economic engine. Benjamin describes the shocking moment he realized how profitability shapes care, access, and outcomes in the treatment world.
Insurance determines who gets humane care. Both Benjamin and Alysse reflect on how “good insurance” gave them safe recovery environments — an advantage many don’t have.
Pop culture shapes our understanding. Films like Dopesick, Painkiller, Pain Hustlers, Body Brokers help raise awareness but flatten nuance; documentaries add back the complexity.
Conversations spark courage. When parents meet each other at screenings, shame lifts and the real healing begins.
Key Timestamps:
00:06:40 — Benjamin’s turning point: quitting alcohol & cocaine in high-pressure advertising
00:07:45 — The myth of “the next milestone” that will magically fix everything
00:08:20 — Why treatment is the only major health process most people don’t understand
00:26:26 — Parents finding relief and validation through the film
00:27:00 — The economics of recovery: what families aren’t told
00:28:00 — Alysse shares her own insurance-based experience and privilege in treatment access
00:28:20 — Pop culture portrayals of recovery & exploitation (Body Brokers, Painkiller, Dopesick)
00:41:56 — The media Benjamin loves — and what representations resonate most
Resources & Links:
Website / Film https://www.stoptheshuffle.com/
Instagram: @benjaminflaherty
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