Close Menu
The Sober CuratorThe Sober Curator
  • HOME
  • ABOUT
    • ❤️ CONTENT
    • CONTRIBUTOR DIRECTORY
    • DEAR READERS✏️
    • MEET THE SOBER CURATOR
    • 📰 PRESS 📺
    • THE SOBEES 🐝
    • CONTACT 📧
  • HAPPY EVERY HOUR
    • NA BEERS AND CIDERS 🍺
    • NON-ALCOHOLIC WINES 🍾
    • NON-ALCOHOLIC SPIRITS 🍸
    • READY TO DRINK 🥤
    • BEHIND THE BAR 🍋‍🟩
    • NA TASTING EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
  • HEALTH & WELLNESS
    • BREAK FREE
    • CODEPENDENCY
    • MASTERING MENTAL FITNESS 🧠💪🏼
    • MENTAL HEALTH 🧠
    • RELATIONSHIPS 🤟🏽
    • SOBER NOT SUBTLE
    • SOBER POETRY 🖋️
    • SPEAK OUT! SPEAK LOUD! 🗣️
    • SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE 🧬
    • WELLNESS AS A WAY OF LIFE
  • LIFESTYLE
    • #ADDTOCART 🛍️
    • ASK MRS. (W)RIGHT ⁉️
    • COMING OUT SOBER 🏳️‍🌈
    • 🏆 CONTENT
    • ✂️CURATED CRAFTS🎨
    • FASHION 👠
    • SHOP 🛒
    • SOBER SPOTLIGHT 🔦
    • SOBER CONTENT CREATION 💻
    • SOBER UNBUZZED FEED
  • ENTERTAINMENT
    • #QUITLIT 📚
    • MOVIE REVIEWS 🍿
    • MUSIC 🎶
    • POPCULTURE
    • RECOVERY PODCASTLAND 🎙️
    • SOBER CURATOR PODCAST 🎧
    • SOBER EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBER SPORTS
    • TV SHOW REVIEWS 📺
  • TRAVEL & EVENTS
    • SOBER EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBER RETREATS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBRIETY IN THE CITY
      • SOBER IN MINNEAPOLIS
      • SOBER IN NYC
      • SOBER IN SEATTLE
    • WHAT A TRIP! 🧳
  • SPIRITUAL GANGSTER
    • THE CARD DIVO 🔮
    • CLASSY PROBLEMS
    • SOBERCAST
    • SOBERSCOPES
    • SOBRIETY IN FLOW 🧘🏻‍♀️
    • THIRSTY FOR WONDER
    • SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE 🧬
    • STOICISM
  • RECOVERY RESOURCES
    • ALCOHOL & SUBSTANCE USE DISORDER RESOURCE GUIDE
    • BREAK FREE FOUNDATION
    • FAMILY RESOURCES
    • GLOSSARY OF ADDICTION AND RECOVERY TERMS
    • LGBTQ+ RECOVERY RESOURCES
    • RECOVERY STORIES
Facebook X (Twitter) Instagram Pinterest YouTube LinkedIn TikTok
The Sober CuratorThe Sober Curator
  • HOME
  • ABOUT
    • ❤️ CONTENT
    • CONTRIBUTOR DIRECTORY
    • DEAR READERS✏️
    • MEET THE SOBER CURATOR
    • 📰 PRESS 📺
    • THE SOBEES 🐝
    • CONTACT 📧
  • HAPPY EVERY HOUR
    • NA BEERS AND CIDERS 🍺
    • NON-ALCOHOLIC WINES 🍾
    • NON-ALCOHOLIC SPIRITS 🍸
    • READY TO DRINK 🥤
    • BEHIND THE BAR 🍋‍🟩
    • NA TASTING EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
  • HEALTH & WELLNESS
    • BREAK FREE
    • CODEPENDENCY
    • MASTERING MENTAL FITNESS 🧠💪🏼
    • MENTAL HEALTH 🧠
    • RELATIONSHIPS 🤟🏽
    • SOBER NOT SUBTLE
    • SOBER POETRY 🖋️
    • SPEAK OUT! SPEAK LOUD! 🗣️
    • SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE 🧬
    • WELLNESS AS A WAY OF LIFE
  • LIFESTYLE
    • #ADDTOCART 🛍️
    • ASK MRS. (W)RIGHT ⁉️
    • COMING OUT SOBER 🏳️‍🌈
    • 🏆 CONTENT
    • ✂️CURATED CRAFTS🎨
    • FASHION 👠
    • SHOP 🛒
    • SOBER SPOTLIGHT 🔦
    • SOBER CONTENT CREATION 💻
    • SOBER UNBUZZED FEED
  • ENTERTAINMENT
    • #QUITLIT 📚
    • MOVIE REVIEWS 🍿
    • MUSIC 🎶
    • POPCULTURE
    • RECOVERY PODCASTLAND 🎙️
    • SOBER CURATOR PODCAST 🎧
    • SOBER EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBER SPORTS
    • TV SHOW REVIEWS 📺
  • TRAVEL & EVENTS
    • SOBER EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBER RETREATS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBRIETY IN THE CITY
      • SOBER IN MINNEAPOLIS
      • SOBER IN NYC
      • SOBER IN SEATTLE
    • WHAT A TRIP! 🧳
  • SPIRITUAL GANGSTER
    • THE CARD DIVO 🔮
    • CLASSY PROBLEMS
    • SOBERCAST
    • SOBERSCOPES
    • SOBRIETY IN FLOW 🧘🏻‍♀️
    • THIRSTY FOR WONDER
    • SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE 🧬
    • STOICISM
  • RECOVERY RESOURCES
    • ALCOHOL & SUBSTANCE USE DISORDER RESOURCE GUIDE
    • BREAK FREE FOUNDATION
    • FAMILY RESOURCES
    • GLOSSARY OF ADDICTION AND RECOVERY TERMS
    • LGBTQ+ RECOVERY RESOURCES
    • RECOVERY STORIES
The Sober CuratorThe Sober Curator
Home - Listen to Your Body: Lessons From the ER 
SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE

Listen to Your Body: Lessons From the ER 

Lane KennedyBy Lane KennedyJune 6, 20255 Mins Read
Lessons from the ER Lane Kennedy Spiritual Substance
Share
Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Pinterest Email
Photo Credit:  «Depositphotos.com»

Lane here — your resident sober biohacker. In this article, I’m sharing a bit of a cautionary tale. If you resonate with chasing big goals, sometimes too hard, pulling a little too much on the “go-getter” string, you’re in the right place. I’m a type A person… sometimes to the extremes. 

Let me just say outright: Ending up in the ER was not on my vision board. I didn’t want to be there. I didn’t want to be in urgent care. I really don’t want to have a health crisis. But… yesterday, there I was. Why? Because I ignored my intuition — I had a little tickle in my throat, something felt off, but the “push past your limits” voice was louder.  

Now, I call this voice my addiction. And, oh, it’s crafty — it shows up in a thousand disguises. It’s the voice that urges just one more rep, one more goal, one more anything. Honestly, it’s the beast I face every day. My own personal Godzilla, except mine currently lives at the gym and likes energy drinks, not skyscrapers. 

How do I usually handle it? I use what I call God — maybe you’d say intuition, universe, higher self, pick your favorite. This force helps me ground down, meditate, pause, and do all sorts of things I’m not naturally wired to do (like… not going all out at the gym when I’m already feeling off). 

But yesterday, I didn’t listen. I went through the motions — had my Celsius, hopped on my bike, chased those endorphins. By halfway, I felt better — seduced by that false sense of “I’m fine.” Then I hit the weights, cranking up the intensity because, let’s be honest, who doesn’t fantasize about more muscle and less fat? (And, not gonna lie, a better-looking bum.) 

Still, that little inner nag persisted: something was off. Did I listen? Nope. I kept going. And then, in a simple moment — throwing a 20-pound weighted ball up in the air… something I’d done a hundred times — something went sideways. 

Suddenly, my heart rate spiked, my balance disappeared, my vision blurred. And for the first time, I had to sit down, literally and figuratively. Friends, let me say — our bodies can whisper, but when we ignore them long enough, they shout. 

I couldn’t drive myself home. I was shaking, freezing. It was NOT pretty! I had to call my husband, I had to rely on another human being (not great at that). Made it home, went into a two-hour mediation to regulate my body. Then to my chiropractor, who convinced me to take it more seriously… 

Urgent care. EKGs. CT scans. Nada. No clear answers. I kept thinking, “What if I’d just skipped the gym? What if I’d listened to myself?” All the test results in the world couldn’t answer what that inner voice already knew: I’d pushed too far, ignored the warning signals, and my body pulled the emergency brake.  

There’s no pill for this. No magic peptide, no supplement. Just rest. Time. Stillness. (All the stuff I’m good at — and teach others — but not always listening to myself). Maybe perfection isn’t about doing the most, but about knowing when enough is enough. About listening. About honoring the soft voice within that says, “Hey, take a pause.” 

So, I postponed my DNA cohort for a week — I’ll call it a “tactical extension,” because I couldn’t show up as my best self strung out and imbalanced. That’s not fair to anyone. I’m terribly disappointed, but I know in a week I’ll be balanced and better and perhaps this experience will change my motives, like my fall did a few years back, which led me to total optimization. Everything happens on time. 

I want to invite you to reflect: Where are your blind spots? Where are you pushing so hard that you can’t even hear your own inner wisdom? Because, trust me, that’s where things can go quietly wrong. 

Research backs me up here, thank goodness. Studies show that ignoring subtle bodily cues — interoceptive signals, as researchers call them — can lead to overtraining, burnout and even injuries (see: Balconi et al., Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, 2017). And the importance of rest in recovery and overall health? Well, as Smith et al. found in the Journal of Sports Sciences (2018), downtime isn’t laziness — it’s a non-negotiable for long-term growth. 

Sometimes, the bravest thing isn’t to push through. It’s to sit down, cry if you have to (been there), and come home to yourself. 

Let’s be real — none of us are perfect. If you need a sign to slow down, this is it. 

Thank you for listening, for being a mirror to my own journey, and for giving yourself permission to pause, too.  

Before I wrap up, here are a few reflective questions to ponder: 

1. Can you recall a time when you ignored your intuition, and what was the result? 

2. What are some subtle cues your body gives you that you frequently overlook? 

3. Where might you need to pause and give yourself grace, even if your goals are calling you to “do more”? 

Lane Kennedy is a DNA Functional Nutritionist, mindfulness teacher, and long-term recovery advocate. She’s dedicated to decoding the body’s blueprint and helping others live with more clarity, resilience, and purpose. Learn more at lanekennedy.com.


SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE at The Sober Curator is a monthly column by Lane Kennedy that explores the rich intersections of mindfulness, science, and spirituality. Each piece blends evidence-based practices with soulful reflection, offering tools to cultivate inner peace, self-awareness, and deeper connection. From meditation techniques to thought-provoking insights, Lane invites readers to expand their understanding and enrich their personal practice.


Pulse Netflix The Mindful Binge Review The Sober Curator

THE MINDFUL BINGE: Netflix’s “Pulse” – Medicine, Romance, and the Glorification of Alcohol Culture


The Resident review The Mindful Binge The Sober Curator

THE MINDFUL BINGE: Review of The Resident: An Analysis of Addiction and the Power of Family Support


We see The Sober Sip newsletter in your future
Resources Are Available

If you or someone you know is experiencing difficulties surrounding alcoholism, addiction, or mental illness, please reach out and ask for help. People everywhere can and want to help; you just have to know where to look. And continue to look until you find what works for you. Click here for a list of regional and national resources.

follow the sober curator on linkedin

Follow The Sober Curator on LinkedIn

emergency room er lane kennedy spiritual substance
Share. Facebook Twitter Pinterest LinkedIn WhatsApp Reddit Tumblr Email
Lane Kennedy
  • Website
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn

Lane Kennedy is today’s no-nonsense modern-day, Calm Maker. Not your ordinary Meditation + Mindfulness teacher. She is a holistic health practitioner, DNA nerd, and co-host of The Now What podcast and The Now What Society members area.

Related Posts

“The Bear” Character Analysis How Birth Order and Family Roles Shape Addiction Genetics

“The Bear” Character Analysis: How Birth Order and Family Roles Shape Addiction Genetics

October 3, 2025
“The Bear's” Genetic Truth Why Television's Most Authentic Addiction Story Isn't Really About Food 

“The Bear’s” Genetic Truth: Why Television’s Most Authentic Addiction Story Isn’t Really About Food 

September 26, 2025
The Sober Revolution_ How DNA, Pop Culture, and a New Generation Are Rewriting America's Relationship With Alcohol 

The Sober Revolution: How DNA, Pop Culture, and a New Generation Are Rewriting America’s Relationship With Alcohol 

August 24, 2025
Leave A Reply Cancel Reply

Sober City Mobile App
SOBERSCRIBE AND GET ON THE LIST!
7 events found.
  • Week of October 27
  • Previous week
  • Next week
Notice
No events scheduled for October 27, 2025.
7:00 pm
Suzanne Warye w/ Casey McGuire Davidson | Seattle
October 28 @ 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm PDT

Suzanne Warye w/ Casey McGuire Davidson | Seattle

Elliott Bay Books Seattle
$28.00
BigVision Halloween Fright Night
October 28 @ 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm PDT

BigVision Halloween Fright Night

BigVision 309 Social Club 309 East 49th Street @ 2nd Ave, New York
$15.00
Notice
No events scheduled for October 29, 2025.
Notice
No events scheduled for October 30, 2025.
7:00 am
Sober October Herbal Mocktail Class
October 31 @ 7:30 am - 9:30 am PDT

Sober October Herbal Mocktail Class

$72.00
6:00 pm
Gay & Sober Presents:  HALLOQUEEN DANCE PARTY | MUSIC BY DJ E.N.
October 31 @ 6:00 pm PDT

Gay & Sober Presents: HALLOQUEEN DANCE PARTY | MUSIC BY DJ E.N.

The Manhattan Mirage 265 W. 37th Street at 8th Avenue , New York City
See website
Soberoke Costume Party at Couve Collective Downtown Vancouver Recovery Cafe
October 31 @ 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm PDT

Soberoke Costume Party at Couve Collective Downtown Vancouver Recovery Cafe

1009 West 13th Street Vancouver, WA 98660 1009 West 13th Street, Vancouver
Free
Ongoing
Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats
November 1 @ 7:00 am - November 8 @ 1:00 pm PDT

Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats

$3445 – $4995
7:00 am
Sober AF Entertainment: Army Black Knights vs. Air Force Falcons @ Falcon Stadium (Air Force Academy – CO)
November 1 @ 7:00 am - 1:00 pm PDT

Sober AF Entertainment: Army Black Knights vs. Air Force Falcons @ Falcon Stadium (Air Force Academy – CO)

Falcon Stadium 4900 Stadium Boulevard, Air Force Academy
See website
All Day
Thailand Yoga, Culture, & Adventure Retreat in Chiang Mai with Bigger Life Adventures
November 2 - November 9

Thailand Yoga, Culture, & Adventure Retreat in Chiang Mai with Bigger Life Adventures

$1999
Capetown, South Africa
November 2 - November 9

Capetown, South Africa

$4700
Ongoing
Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats
November 1 @ 7:00 am - November 8 @ 1:00 pm PDT

Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats

$3445 – $4995

Week of Events

Mon 27
Tue 28
Wed 29
Thu 30
Fri 31
Sat 1
Sun 2
November 1 @ 7:00 am - November 8 @ 1:00 pm <span class='timezone'> PDT </span>

Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats

Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats

November 1 @ 7:00 am - November 8 @ 1:00 pm PDT

Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats

Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats If you’re in recovery—whether newly sober or years into your journey—and ready to reconnect with your purpose, build meaningful connections,

$3445 – $4995
November 1 @ 7:00 am - November 8 @ 1:00 pm <span class='timezone'> PDT </span>

Rediscover Peace & Purpose in Antigua with Sober Travel Retreats

November 2 - November 9

Thailand Yoga, Culture, & Adventure Retreat in Chiang Mai with Bigger Life Adventures

Thailand Yoga, Culture, & Adventure Retreat in Chiang Mai with Bigger Life Adventures

November 2 - November 9

Thailand Yoga, Culture, & Adventure Retreat in Chiang Mai with Bigger Life Adventures

Thailand Yoga, Culture, & Adventure Retreat in Chiang Mai Join us for a rejuvenating week-long yoga retreat near Chiang Mai, Thailand. Immerse yourself in the natural beauty of the area

$1999
November 2 - November 9

Capetown, South Africa

Capetown, South Africa

November 2 - November 9

Capetown, South Africa

Capetown, South Africa Luxury reset, sightseeing, sobriety and safari in South Africa.

$4700
October 28, 2025 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Suzanne Warye w/ Casey McGuire Davidson | Seattle
October 28 @ 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm PDT

Suzanne Warye w/ Casey McGuire Davidson | Seattle

Suzanne Warye w/ Casey McGuire Davidson Wellness writer Suzanne Warye discusses The Sober Shift: A Modern-Day Guide to Living an Abundant Sober Life, alongside life and sobriety coach Casey McGuire Davidson.

$28.00
October 28, 2025 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
BigVision Halloween Fright Night
October 28 @ 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm PDT

BigVision Halloween Fright Night

BigVision Halloween Fright Night Get ready for a spooktacular evening at 309 Social Club! Join us for Halloween Fright Night, a special movie night guaranteed to bring the chills and

$15.00
October 31, 2025 7:30 am - 9:30 am
Sober October Herbal Mocktail Class
October 31 @ 7:30 am - 9:30 am PDT

Sober October Herbal Mocktail Class

Sober October Herbal Mocktail Class Sober October Herbal Mocktail Class

$72.00
October 31, 2025 6:00 pm
Gay & Sober Presents: HALLOQUEEN DANCE PARTY | MUSIC BY DJ E.N.
October 31 @ 6:00 pm PDT

Gay & Sober Presents: HALLOQUEEN DANCE PARTY | MUSIC BY DJ E.N.

Gay & Sober Presents: HALLOQUEEN DANCE PARTY | MUSIC BY DJ E.N. TICKETS:  OCTOBER: $30 DAY OF/AT THE DOOR: $40  ​ FRIDAY, OCTOBER 31ST, 2025 Mark your calendars for a night

See website
October 31, 2025 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Soberoke Costume Party at Couve Collective Downtown Vancouver Recovery Cafe
October 31 @ 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm PDT

Soberoke Costume Party at Couve Collective Downtown Vancouver Recovery Cafe

Soberoke Costume Party at Couve Collective Downtown Vancouver Recovery Cafe Get ready to rock your favorite costume and sing your heart out at our Soberoke Costume Party - a night

Free
November 1, 2025 7:00 am - 1:00 pm
Sober AF Entertainment: Army Black Knights vs. Air Force Falcons @ Falcon Stadium (Air Force Academy – CO)
November 1 @ 7:00 am - 1:00 pm PDT

Sober AF Entertainment: Army Black Knights vs. Air Force Falcons @ Falcon Stadium (Air Force Academy – CO)

Sober AF Entertainment: Army Black Knights vs. Air Force Falcons @ Falcon Stadium (Air Force Academy – CO)

See website
View Calendar
classy problems
The Sober Curator
Facebook Instagram X (Twitter) TikTok YouTube Pinterest
  • PRIVACY POLICY
  • LINKS DISCLAIMER
  • EDITORIAL GUIDELINES
  • TERMS OF SERVICE
  • REFUND POLICY
  • DON’T SELL MY INFO
  • DATA SUBJECT REQUEST FORM
  • CONTACT US
© 2025 The Sober Curator - Benefits of a Alcohol Free Lifestyle

Type above and press Enter to search. Press Esc to cancel.