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Leaving CrazyTown: People Pleasing Isn’t Really Pleasing!

Finn AllenBy Finn AllenNovember 28, 20231 Min Read
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In this episode of Leaving CrazyTown with Finn and Sarah, they discuss people pleasing and how usually both the pleaser and the person being pleased end up not being pleased. They give examples of their people pleasing and how they respond to people trying to please them. As the holiday season gets into full swing, it’s important to check your own people pleasing habits and practice setting boundaries.


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