Father’s Day often brings a heartfelt mix of nostalgia, pride, and maybe even a bit of trepidation for many dads—especially those on a journey of sobriety. On The Sober Curator’s “Bonus Buzz – Father’s Day Special,” hosts Jason Mayo and Tamar Routly were joined by Stephen Kimball, creator of the Sober Dad Crew Podcast, for a raw and relatable discussion about what it means to parent (and cringe at dad jokes) fully present and alcohol-free.
Rediscovering Presence: The Sober Dad Advantage
One of the resounding themes from Jason and Stephen’s dialogue is the gift of true presence that sobriety can offer fathers. Stephen reflected on those blurry early days of parenting: “If you’re defining parenthood, fatherhood… the big job is to be present for your kids and show them that you love them. Not tell them, show them.”
Both Jason and Stephen got sober when their kids were young enough not to remember the darkest moments of addiction, a fact they count as a blessing but also a motivator. Jason shared, “My oldest was seven and my youngest three when I got sober. Thinking back on those years, it’s tough to remember who I even was. I was a different dad then—definitely not as present.”
What stood out was the duo’s focus on forgiveness—for themselves and each other. The classic struggle: Do you regret your ‘before’ years, or do you accept them as part of your journey? Stephen candidly admitted regret, especially as someone who had a ‘second shot’ at fatherhood in a blended, now sober family. But both dads emphasized that grace and growth trump perfectionism.
Jason highlighted the “progress, not perfection” philosophy: “I want to be a little bit better every day. That came from sobriety… and when you look at it as progress, it’s easier to give yourself—and your kids—grace.”
The Joys and Chaos of Sober Parenting
The podcast wasn’t all heavy topics. Laughter is fuel for sober families, and parenting, it turns out, can be downright hilarious. From waking up reluctant teenagers (Jason confessed to blasting Megadeth in his daughter’s bedroom) to the punchlines of groan-worthy dad jokes, embracing the ridiculous is sometimes the saving grace: “I think in my best moments,” said Stephen, “I’m a little bit ridiculous, very dad-jokey. In our family, everything’s on the table. We’ll talk about any topic—even if it’s meth or pimple woes!”
Their candid stories about teenagers judging their social media fame (“micro-celebrity status” according to Jason) reinforced that sober dads are all about showing up—even if it means being the butt of a joke.
For sober parents, “projecting” is a persistent battle—spotting echoes of their own struggles in their children, whether it’s with anxiety, sadness, or even substance experimentation. Jason admitted, “It’s hard not to look at every issue and think, ‘Will she turn out like me?’” Stephen agreed, especially after his daughter’s battle with an eating disorder.
Their solution: Be honest, be open, and, above all, let go. “You have to let kids have their own journey,” Stephen explained. “Guide them, show up, and sometimes, that’s all you can do.”
Hope for Sober or Sober-Curious Dads
To dads who still feel lost in addiction or new to sobriety, both Jason and Stephen had a powerful message: There’s always light—a way back, even after big mistakes. “Rebuilding trust takes time,” Stephen said. “You have to show, not just tell your kids you’ve changed. It’s easy to lose trust, and super hard to rebuild it. But it’s possible.”
Sobriety, they concluded, is about intentional living—choosing to be better not just for yourself, but for the people who matter most.
The episode finished, fittingly, with a flurry of terrible (and amazing) dad jokes and shoutouts to all the resilient, fun-loving, and sometimes “needy” dads out there.
So here’s to the sober dads—the ones relearning how to parent, joke, love, and show up. To those navigating blended families, rough patches, or just another ordinary school morning: you matter, and you’re doing better than you think.
Happy Father’s Day. And remember, “Getting sober matters. Staying sober matters more.”
BONUS BUZZ: Dad Jokes and Real (Sober) Talk with Jason Mayo and Stephen Kimball – TSC Podcast
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This show is for you if you’ve ever wondered:
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The Real Margaret Josephs and her bestie Lexi Barbuto bring the Housewives sparkle to The Sober Curator Podcast. Together with Alysse Bryson and her squad, they unpack the inspiration behind Soirée—a sophisticated, non-alcoholic beverage brand born from glam, inclusivity, and celebration. From Palm Springs photo shoots, inking brand deals with Ceasars Palace, and BravoCon buzz to real talk on confidence, sobriety, and female empowerment, this episode is a toast to living fully, fashionably, and alcohol-free.
Takeaways
Luxury, not limitation: Soirée flips the script—sobriety isn’t missing something; it’s elevating it.
Community is the new cocktail: Confidence, friendship, and glam are the ingredients of a modern party.
Design matters: Fashion roots shaped Soirée’s vintage-glam aesthetic and sensory experience.
Empowering young women: Margaret and Lexi aim to inspire confidence and safety on college campuses.
Vegas, baby: Soirée debuts at Caesar’s Palace during BravoCon—proof that non-alcoholic doesn’t mean non-fun.
Key Timestamps
[00:03:41] Margaret shares how her relationship with alcohol inspired Soirée.
[00:07:00] The Palm Springs “Slim Aarons” photoshoot magic.
[00:10:13] Flipping the mocktail narrative—why “nothing is missing.”
[00:18:00] New flavor drop: Café Spritz for Dry January ☕
[00:23:00] Building confidence for young women and redefining college culture.
[00:35:00] Soirée joins Caesar’s in Vegas just in time for BravoCon.
[00:47:30] Margaret’s self-care confession: Heath Bar Blizzards + binge-watching.
Guest Links
Soirée Official Site: www.drinksoiree.com
Instagram: @drinksoiree
Margaret Josephs: @therealmargaretjosephs
Lexi Barbuto: @lifeofmrsb
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