Join us as we light up the airwaves with a fresh, upbeat take on sobriety. Our infectious energy, paired with a tongue-in-cheek TMZ-style news delivery, hopefully offers our listeners an empowering glimpse into the ever-evolving world of sober living. This short episode is more than a roundup of alcohol-free products and sober-friendly events; it celebrates resilience, personal growth, and the vibrant community that supports and inspires a sober lifestyle.
Key Takeaways and Highlights
Sober Pop Culture & Wellness Trends
We dish on the hottest alcohol-free trends, introducing listeners to must-try products and empowering media depictions. This week’s buzz-free headlines include:
- Ripple Plant-Based Vapes: No nicotine, no THC—just caffeine, aromatherapy, and a “bougie air” alternative for those seeking a ritual without the substances. “A scented puff of superiority,” Justin jokes.
- Netflix’s Sirens & Megan Faye’s Devin: Alysse raves about a sober anti-hero shattering stereotypes and proving you don’t need booze to be a badass. “Sober, savage, and stealing hearts.”
- Alcohol-Free Perfumes: Why should your signature scent double as a cocktail? Explore luxury, hangover-free fragrances for sober sophistication.
- The Better Sister Miniseries: Family drama gets real with a sober twist, centering addiction and recovery in a relatable, binge-worthy format.
- Cameron Whitcomb’s Journey: From Canadian crooner to sober superstar, Cameron’s open dialogue about recovery and mental health resonates with listeners seeking vulnerability and hope.
Sober Slay of the Week: Frankie Grande
Frankie Grande, sober since 2017, is celebrated for ruling recovery with “Broadway flair and a glitter canyon of gratitude.” Alysse highlights Frankie’s role not just as Ariana’s brother, but as a sober icon who uses his platform to champion mental health, creativity, and self-love, showcasing that “sober really is the new fabulous.” The emotional resonance here is clear: sobriety doesn’t diminish sparkle; it amplifies authenticity and joy.
Sober Events Nourish Community and Fun
The episode spotlights a range of engaging, buzz-free events across the United States—from Phoenix’s “Sober Summer Rave” to drag queen pageants, zero-proof grand tastings, a stand-up show in LA, and a competitive basketball tournament in NYC. Each event is curated for connection, laughter, and celebration, with hydration stations. The excitement isn’t just about what’s missing (alcohol); it’s about what’s gained: belonging, shared experiences, and unforgettable moments.
Humor, Honesty, and Empowerment
Humor runs throughout—the fake sponsor “Spite Water,” playful product reviews, and pop culture references remind listeners that sobriety isn’t somber; it overflows with fun, sass, and style. Tamar and Alysse embrace their quirks, poking fun at themselves while exuding gratitude for second chances and personal growth. Their candidness models vulnerability and community for anyone, at any stage, seeking support in recovery.
Emotional Draw: Why They’re Excited to Live Sober
What truly sets this episode apart is its authentic passion for sober living. I recorded from Sin City, and with her sharp wit and warmth, Tamar embodies the realization that sobriety is abundance, not sacrifice. We love celebrating every sober milestone, invite you, our listeners, to step boldly into their own stories, and champion the idea that anyone can recover out loud.
Sobriety is about “keeping it real, keeping it fun, and keeping it sober.” It’s about exchanging regret for genuine experience, shame for pride, and loneliness for belonging. Whether it’s a glam squad pageant, a night of comedy, or just “a hit of calm without the chaos,” the excitement lies in shared empowerment and the promise that recovery brings possibility.
Getting sober is one thing—but staying sober? That’s where the real adventure begins.
This show is for you if you’ve ever wondered:
– Where can I find inspiring sober podcasts, apps, and creators?
– How do I give back or stay plugged into the sober community
– What are the best sober-friendly drinks and travel tips?
– Where do I find the good NA drinks that don’t taste like regret?
The Sober Curator is your go-to for sober pop culture, booze-free travel, apps, creators, and community.
We’re not here to help you get sober.
We’re here to help you live sober—and love it.
What happens when sobriety finally clicks — not just in the body, but in the soul? In this powerful episode, Alysse Bryson sits down with recovery advocate and community leader Jonathan Gildart to talk about incarceration, identity, and finding true belonging in LGBTQ+ recovery spaces. With over 11 years of continuous sobriety, Jonathan shares how service, accountability, and queer community didn’t just help him stay sober — they helped him build a life worth staying for.
Key Takeaways
Why sobriety without community often isn’t enough
How LGBTQ+ recovery spaces create safety, accountability, and joy
The myth of “I don’t have a drinking problem” — and how it unravels
Why service is one of the most powerful relapse-prevention tools
How recovery housing builds responsibility, dignity, and connection
Key Timestamps
[01:26] Meet Jonathan Gildart & his sober origin story
[03:00] Incarceration as the unexpected turning point
[05:10] “I thought I could just drink” — relapse myths
[08:00] Acceptance, identity, and the search for belonging
[12:00] Recovery housing & rebuilding adult life skills
[15:00] Service, leadership, and the Gay & Sober Conference
Notable Resources & Mentions
Oxford House recovery housing
Gay & Sober Conference – “The Year of Love” (2026)
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Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, The Sober Curator Podcast delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.
SOBER EVENTS at The Sober Curator keeps you in the loop on alcohol-free gatherings happening nationwide. From sober comedy shows and non-alcoholic tastings to festivals, retreats, and sporting events, we highlight vibrant, community-driven experiences from coast to coast. Our goal? To keep you entertained, inspired, and connected—no matter where you live. Need more sober time than one event? We’ve got your back with our Sober Retreat Calendar.
SOBER POP CULTURE + CELEBS at The Sober Curator is where mainstream trends meet the vibrant world of sobriety. We serve up a mix of movie, podcast, fashion, and book recommendations alongside alcohol-free cocktails, celebrity features, and pop culture buzz—all with a sober twist.
We’re here to shatter the “sobriety is boring” myth with a mash-up of 80s neon, 90s hip-hop edge, early 2000s bling, and today’s hottest trends. From celebrity shoutouts to red-carpet style inspo, this is where sober is as chic as it is fun. To the celebs using their platform for good—our Sober Pop Trucker hats are off to you!
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