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The Sobriety Deck: A Fun, New Sobriety Resource by Tawny Lara and Lisa Smith

Alysse BrysonBy Alysse BrysonDecember 3, 20244 Mins Read
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In the latest episode of the Sober Curator Podcast, hosted by Alysse Bryson, guests Tawny Lara and Lisa Smith dive into a groundbreaking conversation about the importance of normalizing non-alcoholic options at social events and a broader societal understanding of sobriety. Their discussion offers valuable insights for anyone navigating sobriety while aiming to live a fulfilling and creative life.

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The Shift Towards Normalizing Non-Alcoholic Options

The interview starts with Alysse Bryson noting increased alcohol-free options in airlines, hotels, and restaurants. This shift signifies a growing recognition of the need to include non-drinkers in social settings. Alysse advocates for incorporating these choices at corporate events, stressing the importance of inclusivity.

Lisa Smith echoes this by highlighting the necessity of offering appealing non-alcoholic options. Her work with companies and law firms underscores this need, highlighting the societal shift towards acceptance and normalization of non-drinking. Tawny adds a nuanced view, discussing the cost perception issue of non-alcoholic spirits. She explains that the craftsmanship justifies their price, urging listeners to reconsider the value of these meticulously crafted beverages.

Understanding the Evolution of Sobriety Content

Alysse shares her interest in creating a summit for recovery content creators, emphasizing the importance of understanding the evolution of sobriety-related content. The guests reflect on earlier works in sobriety literature, often called #QUITLIT, and their significant roles as sober authors in the movement. Lisa and Tawny discuss these works’ positive impact on countless lives, serving as a beacon for those seeking support in their sobriety journey.

The Power of Creative Expression in Sobriety

One of the emotional highlights of the episode is the discussion about the therapeutic nature of creative expression. Tawny and Lisa delve into how writing and other creative activities have been instrumental in their sobriety. Tawny advises embracing imperfection in the creative process, encouraging listeners to explore and find joy in new activities. Lisa shares her writing journey without an immediate goal, eventually leading to a book deal after ten years. Their conversation underscores the importance of enjoying the creative process without solely focusing on the end goals.

Addressing Societal Stigma and Evolving Perceptions

The guests highlight how society’s perception of sobriety is changing, particularly among younger generations like Gen Z. Lisa observes a cultural shift from breaking the stigma around sobriety to normalizing not drinking. She notes that avoiding social media has contributed positively to this evolution. This key takeaway is empowering, illustrating how changing societal norms can create a more inclusive environment for those choosing sobriety.

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Innovative Sobriety Resources and Their Creation

The discussion transitions to the creation of unique sobriety resources like Lisa and Tawny’s “The Sobriety Deck. “ This deck is designed as a portable tool, offering suggestions, pointers, and journal ideas across five categories: relationships, knowing oneself, finding joy, navigating the world, and experiencing joy. Their collaborative effort in developing this resource highlights the dedication and thoughtfulness put into supporting others on their sobriety journey.

Embracing Vulnerability and Imperfection

Wrapping up the discussion, Tawny and Lisa stress the importance of vulnerability and imperfection in creative pursuits. They encourage listeners to find joy in activities without undue pressure, whether they involve writing, gardening, or any other hobbies. This reflective note leaves the audience with a powerful message about the value of the journey itself rather than just the destination.

The Unique Journey and Impact of the Sober Curator

Alysse expresses her gratitude for the guests’ contributions and influence on the sober community. The conversation solidifies The Sober Curator’s role as a vital resource for those on a sobriety journey, offering diverse content that caters to different stages and preferences. Alysse’s commitment to facilitating informed choices without imposing personal opinions mirrors The Sober Curator’s inclusive ethos.

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SNL’s “Non-Non” Sketch: Sobering Laugh or Line Crossed?
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In this fiery debut of Hot Takes, Alysse Bryson, Tamar Routly (AKA T-Boog), and new co-host Lane Kennedy unpack SNL’s controversial “Non-Non-Alcoholic Beer” sketch. Was it harmless satire or tone-deaf comedy at the expense of sober folks? The trio digs into stigma, humor, and timing — with personal stories, laughter, and a few very real emotions along the way. 

Takeaways: 

  • Why the SNL sketch sparked such mixed reactions in sober circles. 

  • The fine line between dark humor and damaging stereotypes. 

  • How comedy can both start conversations and reinforce stigma. 

  • The reality of “non-alcoholic” drinking for those in recovery. 

    • Why open dialogue matters more than outrage. 

    Key Timestamps: 

    • [00:02:00] The SNL sketch setup — and why it hit a nerve. 

    • [00:05:00] Humor vs. harm: where’s the line? 

    • [00:10:00] The non-alcoholic beer debate — harmless or high-risk? 

    • [00:14:00] Cultural obsession with alcohol as identity. 

    • [00:18:00] What we wish SNL had done differently. 

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    • Watch the original SNL “Non-Non-Alcoholic Beer” sketch on YouTube. 

    • Read Alysse’s full editorial on The Sober Curator. 

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