In the latest episode of the Sober Curator Podcast, hosted by Alysse Bryson, guests Tawny Lara and Lisa Smith dive into a groundbreaking conversation about the importance of normalizing non-alcoholic options at social events and a broader societal understanding of sobriety. Their discussion offers valuable insights for anyone navigating sobriety while aiming to live a fulfilling and creative life.
The Shift Towards Normalizing Non-Alcoholic Options
The interview starts with Alysse Bryson noting increased alcohol-free options in airlines, hotels, and restaurants. This shift signifies a growing recognition of the need to include non-drinkers in social settings. Alysse advocates for incorporating these choices at corporate events, stressing the importance of inclusivity.
Lisa Smith echoes this by highlighting the necessity of offering appealing non-alcoholic options. Her work with companies and law firms underscores this need, highlighting the societal shift towards acceptance and normalization of non-drinking. Tawny adds a nuanced view, discussing the cost perception issue of non-alcoholic spirits. She explains that the craftsmanship justifies their price, urging listeners to reconsider the value of these meticulously crafted beverages.
Understanding the Evolution of Sobriety Content
Alysse shares her interest in creating a summit for recovery content creators, emphasizing the importance of understanding the evolution of sobriety-related content. The guests reflect on earlier works in sobriety literature, often called #QUITLIT, and their significant roles as sober authors in the movement. Lisa and Tawny discuss these works’ positive impact on countless lives, serving as a beacon for those seeking support in their sobriety journey.
The Power of Creative Expression in Sobriety
One of the emotional highlights of the episode is the discussion about the therapeutic nature of creative expression. Tawny and Lisa delve into how writing and other creative activities have been instrumental in their sobriety. Tawny advises embracing imperfection in the creative process, encouraging listeners to explore and find joy in new activities. Lisa shares her writing journey without an immediate goal, eventually leading to a book deal after ten years. Their conversation underscores the importance of enjoying the creative process without solely focusing on the end goals.
Addressing Societal Stigma and Evolving Perceptions
The guests highlight how society’s perception of sobriety is changing, particularly among younger generations like Gen Z. Lisa observes a cultural shift from breaking the stigma around sobriety to normalizing not drinking. She notes that avoiding social media has contributed positively to this evolution. This key takeaway is empowering, illustrating how changing societal norms can create a more inclusive environment for those choosing sobriety.
Innovative Sobriety Resources and Their Creation
The discussion transitions to the creation of unique sobriety resources like Lisa and Tawny’s “The Sobriety Deck. “ This deck is designed as a portable tool, offering suggestions, pointers, and journal ideas across five categories: relationships, knowing oneself, finding joy, navigating the world, and experiencing joy. Their collaborative effort in developing this resource highlights the dedication and thoughtfulness put into supporting others on their sobriety journey.
Embracing Vulnerability and Imperfection
Wrapping up the discussion, Tawny and Lisa stress the importance of vulnerability and imperfection in creative pursuits. They encourage listeners to find joy in activities without undue pressure, whether they involve writing, gardening, or any other hobbies. This reflective note leaves the audience with a powerful message about the value of the journey itself rather than just the destination.
The Unique Journey and Impact of the Sober Curator
Alysse expresses her gratitude for the guests’ contributions and influence on the sober community. The conversation solidifies The Sober Curator’s role as a vital resource for those on a sobriety journey, offering diverse content that caters to different stages and preferences. Alysse’s commitment to facilitating informed choices without imposing personal opinions mirrors The Sober Curator’s inclusive ethos.
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In this gripping episode, Alysse sits down with filmmaker Benjamin Flaherty for a powerful conversation about the business behind addiction recovery — and why too many families are left carrying shame, confusion, and financial devastation while trying to save their loved ones. Benjamin’s documentary exposes the economics, ethics, and emotional fallout inside the modern treatment industry, while also honoring the parents, advocates, and survivors who continue fighting for change.
From medically assisted treatment debates to the insurance inequalities that shape who gets quality care, this episode goes deeper than most sober conversations dare to go. It’s raw, urgent, and grounded in truth — the kind of discussion that can only happen in a space built for honesty.
Takeaways:
Families aren’t alone. Many parents attend screenings thinking their child’s exploitation or treatment experience was “their fault” — Benjamin’s film shows the systemic patterns behind the pain.
Recovery has an economic engine. Benjamin describes the shocking moment he realized how profitability shapes care, access, and outcomes in the treatment world.
Insurance determines who gets humane care. Both Benjamin and Alysse reflect on how “good insurance” gave them safe recovery environments — an advantage many don’t have.
Pop culture shapes our understanding. Films like Dopesick, Painkiller, Pain Hustlers, Body Brokers help raise awareness but flatten nuance; documentaries add back the complexity.
Conversations spark courage. When parents meet each other at screenings, shame lifts and the real healing begins.
Key Timestamps:
00:06:40 — Benjamin’s turning point: quitting alcohol & cocaine in high-pressure advertising
00:07:45 — The myth of “the next milestone” that will magically fix everything
00:08:20 — Why treatment is the only major health process most people don’t understand
00:26:26 — Parents finding relief and validation through the film
00:27:00 — The economics of recovery: what families aren’t told
00:28:00 — Alysse shares her own insurance-based experience and privilege in treatment access
00:28:20 — Pop culture portrayals of recovery & exploitation (Body Brokers, Painkiller, Dopesick)
00:41:56 — The media Benjamin loves — and what representations resonate most
Resources & Links:
Website / Film https://www.stoptheshuffle.com/
Instagram: @benjaminflaherty
YouTube Trailer: OFFICIAL TRAILER | SHUFFLE
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