In the ever-evolving world of sobriety and endurance athletics, have you ever wondered what it takes for someone to continue pushing the limits while staying alcohol-free? Enter James Gwinnett, our beacon of motivation and ultra-marathon magic, who has been navigating life sober since 2016. His secret? A mix of determination, laughter, and a good dose of mental fitness (Read: not a fuel on sugary sports drinks, but actual headspace management).
Find Your Motivation and Run with It
James’ story is one for the sober history books. You’re probably familiar with that moment when you realize beer isn’t the best recovery strategy after a rough rugby match. James stumbled upon that epiphany after a significant neck injury sidelined his rugby days. Host of the Sober Curator Podcast, Alysse Bryson, was keen to dive into James’ journey, but let’s face it, we’re mostly here for James’ tales of meeting Prince Harry, exchanging rugby stories, and all things ultra-marathon.
An Ounce of Sobriety is Worth a Lifetime of Vitality
As James tells it, his rehab was less about 12-steps and more like 100 miles—often literally. Upon discovering the marathon, he switched from sobering melodies to the symphony of sneakers on pavement, signing up for his first London Marathon in 2017. Queue the Rocky montage theme; this man was ready to take on the world with mental fortitude, proving that shredding your liver isn’t the only way to celebrate victories. Getting out and walking or running in supportive men’s shoes helps you move forward and keep yourself on track.
Running with Royals: When Prince Harry Became Part of the Narrative
Let’s pause to appreciate the royal bash alert about a chance meeting and, dare we say—a Heineken Zero with Prince Harry. Of course, this was pre-sobriety James, but still, it only ups his aristocratic street cred. His anecdote left us pressing the ‘rewind’ button. Tamar Medford, another host at The Sober Curator, gushed about James’ humor-filled tale of meeting a prince over Dutch beer. Yawn, right? If your yawns are somehow followed by chuckles.
Bookish Pursuits: Sharing Wisdom in ‘Ready, Set, Life’
James’ autobiography-slash-advice book, ‘READY. SET. LIFE,’ weaves insightful commentary with his wicked humor, inviting sober folks and aspiring athletic prodigies alike to navigate the chaos of modernity with optimism, resilience, and a superpower called mental fitness. The book’s title alone is like an advent calendar — each chapter a new (albeit metaphorical) chocolate treating you to pearls of wisdom gathered from sobering experiences and adventures.
The Sobees #QUITLIT Score: 4 out of 5 Sobees
Infinite Possibilities (Minus a Cold One)
James’ transformation into a sober endurance athlete not only fuels his runs but inspires readers, many of whom reached out after his book’s release (is that tear glistening in your eye, James?). It’s the unraveling of how sobriety can coincide with leaps into the unknown, reminding us mere mortals that everything you want is on the other side of fear—or a 145-mile endurance run from London to Bristol, semantics.
Connect with James Gwinnett
- Website jamesgwinnett.com
- IG @jamesgwinnett
- linktr.ee
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A.J. Daulerio got sober in the middle of the Hulk Hogan trial. Three months in, every defect of character he had was being read to a jury. He calls it fourth step dinner theater.
Then he built The Small Bow, the recovery publication Alysse was embarrassed she didn’t know about: literary essays, free Zoom meetings every day of the week, a podcast, and now a book. Two magazine people and a producer try to name the category they’re in, and mostly fail.
In this episode:
- Why AJ interviews himself in the car (and who he pretends is asking)
- “Sober BuzzFeed” vs. “literary meat”: what each of us is building and who it’s for
- The Harper’s story about AA that made AJ pay $100 a year, and why nobody writes for people who are past rock bottom and a little adrift
- Abstinence, sobriety, recovery: why 12-step is one of nine things AJ does
- The Hulk Hogan trial, the Uber driver who didn’t care, and the lesson in humility
- The Small Book, out Dec. 29
Heads up: this one goes to some dark places, including a reader AJ lost and a friend Alysse lost. Take care while listening.
CHAPTERS
00:00 The train, off the tracks
01:28 AJ interviews himself in the car
05:34 How Alysse found The Small Bow
11:39 “Chicken soup for the dark night of the soul”
14:40 Are we wellness? Sound baths and trust falls
15:19 Sober ten years, and the problems get classier
18:54 Abstinence, sobriety, recovery: 12-step is one of nine
26:35 The Harper’s story that started everything
29:58 Literary meat vs. sober BuzzFeed
41:15 Fourth step dinner theater: the Hulk Hogan trial
46:57 “I’m the writer. I’m the human.”
48:47 “So you met Hulk Hogan?”
57:17 What AJ would tell year one
01:01:59 “Fast-forward to the part they get sober”
Sober Shots:
“You’re allowed to build your whole life around a routine nobody will ever write a headline about.” (Alysse Bryson)
“All the things that I thought were being taken away from me were also the things I needed to let go of the most.” (A.J. Daulerio)
Mentioned in this episode:
– The Small Bow – The Small Book, out Dec. 29 – I’m The Sober Curator, and I Just Found The Small Bow – S2E17 with Paulina Pinsky – Backstage with The Sober Curator
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