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Highways, Heartache, and Hangovers_ Our Rehab Odyssey Along the Least Coast _ Sober Poetry by Lisa Crump
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Highways, Heartache, and Hangovers: Our Rehab Odyssey Along the Least Coast

We were addicts in love, hitchhiking through chaos. The least coast didn’t just witness us—it swallowed us, spat us back broken, bleeding, still clutching each other. Recovery was a moving target. Relapse was a shadow. Love—messy, relentless love—was the only compass.


Reynolds, Georgia – Beginning

Sun barely up. Disinfectant in the air. First rehab. First tremble.

“You think we can do this?” I whispered, voice cracking.

“You don’t get it,” he said, squeezing my hand like a lifeline. “We have to.”

Hallways buzzing, peeling paint, nervous whispers. Our first fights tore through the quiet; apologies fell like rain on cracked tile. Coffee shops became confessional booths. Streets, therapy sessions. Reynolds taught us: love in recovery is terrifying—messy, raw, relentless. Hold on, or crash.


Florida – Freedom & Fragility

We thought we’d outrun the demons. Ocean winds, salty skin, empty beaches. Sunrises sober for once. Diner breakfasts, late-night drives, low radio, hands intertwined.

“Can you believe we made it this far?” I whispered, staring at the Atlantic.

“Neither can I,” he said. “And we’re not letting go.”

Freedom tasted sweet—but fragile. Cravings whispered in the wind, shadows lingered in our smiles. Florida taught us: recovery isn’t a place. It’s a choice you make every day, every glance, every heartbeat.


Reynolds, Georgia – First Relapse

Back where it began. Familiar halls. Familiar pain. We crashed into old habits like gravity—inevitable, violent. Shame and relief twisted together.

“I thought we were done,” I said, voice trembling.

“We will be,” he said, barely holding himself upright. “We just… need this now.”

Reynolds reminded us: relapse is part of the story. Pain is part of the map. And love can survive the wreckage—but only if you try again.


Reynolds, Georgia – Detox & Residential

This time, walls weren’t just rehab—they were sanctuary. Silent rooms, guided therapy, the quiet hum of people fighting battles like ours. We held hands through the dark, shared whispered confessions at 2 a.m., clung to milestones like lifeboats. Reynolds showed us the power of restarting, of surrendering, of letting structure and care stitch the wounds open by our choices.


Charleston, South Carolina – Treatment & Fire

Charleston burned us alive. Humid nights, neon reflections in puddles, relentless therapy sessions. We fought. We screamed. We bled old habits from our veins.

“Why do we keep doing this to ourselves?” I asked, voice breaking.

“Because we’re alive,” he said, pulling me close. “We’re surviving. That counts.”

We danced barefoot in motel hallways, laughed through tears, screamed confessions into the night. Charleston taught us: chaos and love can coexist, but only if you’re willing to bleed, survive, and fight together.


Richmond, Virginia – Climb & Collapse

Richmond hit like a brick wall. High-stakes therapy. Long nights of cravings, whispers, and shadowed thoughts.

“I can’t do this again!” I yelled, slamming doors.

“You think I can?” he shot back, fury and fear entwined.

Richmond reflected our darkest selves—beautiful, unforgiving, alive. Love and addiction fused. We fought. We held. We broke. We rebuilt. Until… relapse. Again.


Reynolds, Georgia – Detox & Treatment (Again)

Back to the origin. Familiar rooms, familiar fears, familiar hope. Detox and residential became the reset we needed. Walls smelled of disinfectant and survival. Hand-holding became ritual. Apologies, confessions, silent tears became lifelines. Reynolds showed us what tenacity looks like: the courage to return, the courage to start over, the courage to keep each other alive when everything else is falling apart.

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