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Welcome to another enlightening episode of Sober Not Mature! In Episode 121, titled “Filling Your Holes With John From Sober Speak,” hosts Bill and Mike engage in a deep-dive conversation with John, a longtime member of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and the creator of the widely acclaimed Sober Speak podcast. In this episode, the trio covers a multitude of topics, from the importance of community in sobriety to the intricacies of maintaining a successful podcast. Here, we recap the main themes, insightful discussions, and key takeaways from this impactful conversation.

The Importance of a Digital Presence

Early in the episode, Bill and Mike emphasize the significance of having a dedicated website for Sober Not Mature. Bill points out how essential it is for credibility and driving traffic, acting as a centralized hub for their content. This conversation is crucial for podcasters and content creators, highlighting how an effective digital presence can bolster a brand’s reach and engage a more extensive audience.

Embracing AA and Sobriety

John opens up about his journey in Alcoholics Anonymous, sharing that he has been sober for over 30 years since May 29, 1989. His path was fraught with mistakes and relapses before he found lasting sobriety. The turning point for John was a conversation with an AA member who reassured him that the only requirement for joining AA is a desire to stop drinking. This simple yet profound statement had a transformative impact on John.

The Power of the Twelve Steps

John elaborates on how working the Twelve Steps, as laid out in the “Big Book” of Alcoholics Anonymous, has been instrumental in maintaining his sobriety. By dedicating himself to this structured program and embracing the support of his AA community, John has managed to remain sober, attributing his success to the grace of God.

The Role of Community and Regular Meetings

Bill and Mike resonate deeply with John’s experiences, sharing their commitment to attending AA meetings. They discuss the sense of community and unwavering support they find in these gatherings, emphasizing how integral these meetings are to their sobriety. This discussion reinforces the episode’s central theme: the vital importance of finding and fostering a supportive community in the journey to recovery.

Unveiling Sober Speak

The conversation transitions to John’s extensive work with Sober Speak, a podcast and website catering to the recovery community. John’s podcast started in 2018 and has reached an impressive milestone with 350 episodes and 2.5 million downloads. John has not missed a single weekly release since its inception, embodying commitment and consistency.

Technical Challenges and Triumphs

John reflects on the technical hurdles he faced when starting his podcast, from mastering the intricacies of recording equipment to editing episodes. Despite initial challenges, he found a rhythm, illustrating the importance of perseverance and learning through experience. This segment serves as an encouragement to budding podcasters who the technical aspects of the medium may daunt.

Promoting Sobriety Through Content

The hosts and John discuss strategies for making their podcast accessible and practical. John shares how he focuses his website content on low-competition, high-search-volume keywords to reach a broader audience. This insightful tidbit showcases the importance of SEO (search engine optimization) in amplifying a podcast’s reach.

Personal Reflections and Future Plans

Bill and Mike share updates on their personal lives and future events, including Bill’s upcoming trip to Wisconsin and Mike’s radio gig at WJCU on August 30. They reflect on their experiences at recent events like Founder’s Day and their efforts to promote the podcast using business cards.

Social Media Struggles

A recurring theme in the episode is the frustration with social media platforms, particularly Facebook. Bill and Mike discuss the challenges of dealing with Facebook’s content regulations and the spam notifications triggered by hashtags and cross-posting memes. This segment unveils content creators’ often-overlooked difficulties in navigating social media landscapes.

Heartfelt Initiatives and Community Bonds

Towards the end of the episode, the conversation steers towards a heartfelt initiative: raising funds for a child’s organ transplant. Bill highlights a link in the episode description for donations, encouraging listeners to contribute. This moment encapsulates the spirit of SoberNotMature—a blend of sobriety, community, and compassion.

Final Reflections and Thank You’s

As the episode draws to a close, John acknowledges the imperfect yet fulfilling nature of sobriety, stating, “It’s not all butterflies and ponies, but I’m deeply grateful for my sober life.” The hosts thank John for sharing his journey, promoting his podcast and website, Sober Speak, and concluding with their characteristic warmth and humor.

Key Takeaways

  1. Community and Support: The importance of regularly attending AA meetings and finding a supportive community cannot be overstated.
  2. Commitment to Sobriety: Working the Twelve Steps and embracing the support network in AA play crucial roles in maintaining long-term sobriety.
  3. Digital Presence: Having a website for a podcast enhances credibility and helps centralize content, making it more accessible to the audience.
  4. Overcoming Technical Hurdles: Consistency and a willingness to learn are vital in overcoming the challenges of starting and maintaining a podcast.
  5. SEO Strategies: Focusing on low competition, high search volume keywords can significantly increase a podcast’s reach.
  6. Social Media Challenges: Navigating the regulations and algorithms of social media platforms is often more complex than it seems but remains crucial for content promotion.
  7. Heartfelt Initiatives: Engaging in compassionate and community-driven initiatives can add depth and purpose to a podcast’s mission.
    Episode 121 of SoberNotMature once again brings to light the transformative power of sobriety, the necessity of community support, and the relentless dedication required to maintain a successful podcast. Tune in to gain more insights and stories that touch the heart and soul.


About Sober Speak

John M, the Founder of Sober Speak, epitomizes a beacon of hope and guidance in recovery and mental health wellness. With an impressive tenure of over 35 years of sobriety under his belt since May 29, 1989, John attributes his journey to the grace of God and the unwavering support of his close-knit circle of friends. Despite his profound gratitude for his sobriety, John remains grounded, recognizing that his path is no more special than anyone else’s, humbly pondering the divine intervention that led him to this point.

Driven by a sense of purpose and intuition, John ventured into the world of podcasting, giving birth to the immensely impactful Sober Speak podcast in late 2017. Fueled by the unwavering encouragement of his wife, The Lovely Mrs. M, John’s podcast has garnered over 2.5 million downloads, serving as a beacon of hope and inspiration to individuals across more than 200 countries. Beyond the podcast, the Sober Speak website stands as a dedicated platform catering to those in AA, Al-Anon, and other 12-step programs, offering valuable insights on mental health and other engaging topics. John’s profound journey, coupled with his insatiable thirst for knowledge and growth, reflects his unwavering commitment to personal development, spiritual exploration, and emotional well-being, inspiring countless individuals on their paths to recovery and self-discovery.

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