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Dear Andy Cohen: It’s Time to “Bravo, Bravo, Fing Bravo” a New Drinking Narrative by Anne Marie Cribbin 

Anne Marie CribbinBy Anne Marie CribbinApril 3, 20258 Mins Read
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Dear Andy, 

First of all, let me start by saying: I love this messy little empire you’ve built. The “Real Housewives” franchise is a masterpiece of absurdity and opulence, a symphony of Birkin bags, surprise lawsuits, sprinkle cookies, and women fighting over who said what at whose charity gala. It is, at its best, an intoxicating blend (pun fully intended) of glamour, camp, and deep, deep pettiness. 

Where else can we get a woman hurling a prosthetic leg across a dinner table (Aviva Drescher, you are forever unhinged in our hearts), a socialite snarking, “If I give you a Chanel necklace and you choke on it, that’s your problem,” (Lisa Barlow, never change), and one of the greatest cinematic moments of our time: “Receipts! Proof! Timeline!” (The Reality Von Tease reveal). The Housewives are a cultural institution. The kind of chaos they deliver is, quite frankly, my happy place. 

And yet, for all the depth the franchise has found in its most vulnerable moments — women navigating fertility struggles, sexual assault, grief, divorce, and even federal prison — the one topic that still gets treated with a high-gloss, Bravo-filtered sheen is alcohol. 

Over the years, we’ve seen plenty of Housewives change their relationship with drinking — Kyle Richards, Gina Kirschenheiter, Ashley Darby, Luann de Lesseps, and Braunwyn Windham-Burke, to name a few. But when a Housewife decides to cut back or quit drinking altogether, it’s often met with the same suspicious energy as Sutton Stracke demanding answers: “Name ‘em! Name ‘em!” 

It becomes a storyline, something to be questioned, explained, and, at times, ridiculed. “Why aren’t you drinking? Are you pregnant? Are you judging us? Are you lying?” The entire narrative is still framed around the assumption that alcohol is the norm and sobriety is the anomaly. 

And yet, the reality outside the Bravo bubble tells a different story. More and more people are reevaluating their relationship with alcohol — whether through mindful drinking, sobriety, or simply realizing that maybe they don’t need to be blackout drunk to enjoy a girls’ trip to Turks & Caicos. The world is evolving, Andy. Shouldn’t Housewives evolve with it? 

Let’s talk about accountability.  

We have watched Housewives hold each other’s feet to the fire over everything — accusations of cheating, fraudulent businesses, and even Puppygate. But when it comes to alcohol-related incidents, accountability gets murky. 

Take Shannon Beador. After her DUI, she took full responsibility, pled no contest, and accepted the legal consequences. And yet, the conversation on “RHOC” quickly turned to whether her choice to moderate rather than fully abstain was “real” accountability. Her decisions were picked apart, dissected, and, at times, weaponized against her. 

Then there’s Karen Huger. During the most recent season of “RHOP,” we saw multiple cast members bring up her historied alcohol use, yet Karen herself largely avoided engaging in those discussions. Now, she has been sentenced to one year in prison for her fourth DUI conviction, with a two-year sentence, one year suspended. The reality is, we don’t know what Karen’s personal journey with alcohol looks like, what internal struggles she may be facing, or how she will move forward from this. And that’s precisely the gap Bravo has yet to bridge — when alcohol becomes more than just a party storyline, how does the franchise create space for these women to engage in honest, reflective conversations about it? 

Because we do know Housewives can go there. 

We’ve seen these women sit in the depths of heartbreak and loss. We’ve watched Jill Zarin mourn Bobby, Lisa Vanderpump grieve her mother and brother, and Teresa Giudice navigate life as a single mother after her husband’s deportation. We’ve also seen Garcelle Beauvais publicly process the betrayal and pain of her ex-husband’s infidelity while balancing single motherhood and a Hollywood career. We saw Porsha Williams use her platform to advocate for justice after the murder of Breonna Taylor, stepping into activism in a way that changed how she viewed her own legacy. Candiace Dillard has been raw about the complexities of navigating mental health, childhood trauma, and family expectations. These are the moments that elevate Housewives from pure spectacle to something that sticks with us long after the reunion chairs have been packed away. 

So why, when it comes to alcohol, does the franchise still skim the surface? 

Not every drinking storyline needs to be a somber intervention, but the reality is that for many, alcohol isn’t just about partying — it’s about coping. Pain, loneliness, pressure, unresolved grief — all of it can be softened with a martini, at least for a little while. But instead of exploring why these women drink the way they do, the conversation stops at whether they’re “fun” enough, “messy” enough, or drinking “the right way.” 

That’s the missing piece. And it’s a conversation Housewives is more than capable of having — if only Bravo is willing to let it unfold. 

Here’s the thing, Andy. No one is saying Bravo should become “PBS Frontline: The Real Housewives Edition.” (God forbid.) The last thing I want is for my Housewives to become a self-serious after-school special. But “The Real Housewives” has always been a reflection of the world it exists in, and right now, that world is moving towards more honest conversations about alcohol. 

The franchise doesn’t need to remove alcohol. (That would be like taking away the glam squads. We are not monsters.) But it does need to shift the narrative. 

Here’s what that could look like: 

  • If a Housewife gets a DUI, don’t let it be a footnote. We’ve seen Housewives go through divorces, lawsuits, business failures, and deep personal reckonings in real-time. Why should legal consequences related to alcohol be treated differently? Let us see them navigate the reality of what happens next, not just an update at the reunion. 
  • If a Housewife decides to stop drinking, stop making it a “storyline.” Let it be a choice, not a scandal. 
  • If a Housewife is clearly struggling, don’t just film it for sport. Open up space for real conversations, not just confessional shade. 

Because right now, it still feels like Bravo only engages with sobriety when it’s unavoidable. When it’s headline-worthy. When the scandal outweighs the substance. 

And frankly? The Housewives deserve better. 

At the end of the day, we’re all here for the drama. (The Erika Jayne of it all! The Monique Samuels binder! Meredith Marks’ bangs at the Audrey Hepburn brunch!) But “The Real Housewives” has always been at its best when it balances the absurd with the deeply profound. 

And alcohol? It’s still stuck in the absurd phase. 

So, Andy. Consider this your Next Season Reunion agenda. It’s time to shift the narrative. Not in a way that ruins the fun, but in a way that makes the franchise better, sharper, and — dare I say it? — a little more real. 

With love and a well-timed hair flip, 
Anne Marie 


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