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Best Cities to Live a Sober Lifestyle

Alysse BrysonBy Alysse BrysonJanuary 30, 20234 Mins Read
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Some cities are known for bustling nightlife, while others are more laid back and relaxed. But for those in recovery from addiction, some cities offer better resources and support systems than others.

In my humble opinion, here are some of the best cities to be sober in the United States:

Seattle, Washington:

Of course, I’m putting my city in the number one spot. In the words of Macklemore, “My city’s filthy!” Known for its stunning natural beauty and thriving tech industry, Seattle also boasts a large recovery community and a variety of resources for those in recovery. The city has several sober living facilities and 12-step meetings, as well as a strong network of sober social activities. From hiking in the nearby mountains to enjoying the famous coffee shops and seafood restaurants, Seattle offers many opportunities to enjoy a sober life. Sober Curator Pro Tip: Because so many of our Sober Curators live in the Emerald City, we’ve dedicated an entire section of our site to Seattle.


Portland, Oregon:

Like Seattle, Portland is known for its progressive culture, vibrant art scene, and access to nature. The city has a variety of sober living options, numerous 12-step meetings, and many sober social groups and activities. From hiking and biking in Forest Park to exploring the many local boutiques and coffee shops, Portland offers an excellent quality of life for those in recovery. My favorite must-stop spots are Powell’s Bookstore and Wildfang. (Side note: I’m declaring the 2023 Year of the Coveralls!) Looking for a sober community? Be sure to check out @mysobergirlfriends


Austin, Texas:

Austin is known for its lively music and vibrant cultural scene, and the city has a growing recovery community. It has multiple sober living homes, recovery centers, and 12-step meetings. The city also has many outdoor activities, from hiking and biking in the nearby hills to swimming in Barton Springs Pool, providing opportunities for sober fun. Sober Curator Pro Tip: Austin is home to Sans Bar, the very first alcohol-free bar in the country.


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Denver, Colorado:

Denver is known for its stunning natural beauty and active, outdoorsy population. The city has several sober living facilities, recovery centers, and 12-step meetings. From skiing and hiking in the nearby Rocky Mountains to exploring the city’s many parks and bike paths, Denver offers an excellent quality of life for those in recovery. Plus, Denver has an incredible street art scene that is perfect for any sober Instagrammerโ€”looking for sober events? Be sure to check out Sober AF Entertainment – they create sober spaces in fun places!


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New York City, New York:

One of the most famous cities in the world, New York City also has a large recovery community and a variety of resources for those in recovery. The city has several sober living facilities, recovery centers, and 12-step meetings. From exploring Central Park to visiting the many museums and art galleries, New York City offers a wealth of cultural opportunities for those in recovery. I love following @soberincentralpark on IG and staying up to date with all of the sober happenings in the Big Apple. Sober Curator Pro Tip: NYC is also home to one of our favorite sober influencers, Tawny Lara – aka the sober sexpert. Word on the sober street, she has a new book coming out later this year! If you’re looking to find in-person sober events and activities, @bigvisionnyc will get you dialed in.


These are just a few examples of the many cities in the United States that offer a great quality of life for those in recovery. When choosing a city to live in, it’s important to consider the resources available for recovery and the city’s overall atmosphere and culture. It’s also important to connect with a community of like-minded individuals committed to living a sober life.

Mad that your city didn’t make the list? Tell me why I’m wrong and why YOUR city should be added to the list. Take it one step further and become a Sober Curator for a day so our readers can find out how to have the perfect sober day in your city! Check out the details HERE.


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This is YOUR chance to become a Sober Curator for a day! If you have the perfect sober city agenda, reach out to us! We would love to share your idea of how to have the PERFECT SOBER DAY IN YOUR CITY with our community. DM us on social media or email us directly at thesobercurator@gmail.com. (*PS โ€“ itโ€™s totally ok if it really turns into a sober weekend agenda LOL)

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