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    Unpacking Menopause, Sobriety, and Silver Balls—Inside “The Menopause Revolution” on The Sober Curator Podcast

    Alexandra NymanBy Alexandra NymanMay 2, 20254 Mins Read
    rom Hangovers to Hot Flashes: Menopause Conversations for Sober Women
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    The Sober Curator Podcast Menopause Edition

    Can a handful of silver massage balls, a lively menopausal posse, and a sober approach to wellness change how we talk about aging women’s health? After listening to the latest bonus episode of the Sober Curator Podcast—“Bonus Buzz – The Menopause Revolution Full”—the answer is a resounding YES.

    A Laugh-Packed, Truth-Bombed Roundtable

    This special episode, hosted by Alysse Bryson with co-host Tamar Routly and guests Anne Marie Cribbin, Amy Liz Harrison, and Lane Kennedy, dives deep into the menopause conversation that should be happening everywhere. If you thought menopause was just hot flashes and hormone jokes, buckle up—these ladies are here to disrupt the silence with vulnerability and a ton of humor.

    From the opening banter about “cold silver balls” (trust us, just listen) to honest admissions about hormone therapy, brain fog, and surviving teenage children while perimenopausal, the group sets the uniquely inclusive and irreverent tone we love from The Sober Curator. They’re frank about fluctuating symptoms, emotional rollercoasters, and the unique challenges (and gifts) that sobriety brings to navigating menopause.

    Why Oprah’s Menopause Special Matters

    Much of this episode pivots around Oprah’s recent ABC special, “The Menopause Revolution,” which did what Oprah does best: elevated a secretive, often-ignored women’s health topic to main-stage pop culture status. The hosts and guests gush over the importance of seeing powerhouses like Oprah, Halle Berry, and Naomi Watts speak honestly about menopause—destigmatizing symptoms, misdiagnoses (heart disease, anyone?), and busting old myths (no, your journey isn’t exactly like your mother’s).

    They draw a compelling parallel: menopause is to sobriety as an awkward, uninvited cousin is to a family reunion—both bring discomfort, mood swings, and (if handled right) a sense of wildly overdue relief and freedom.

    Sobriety, Symptoms & That Sober Sixth Sense

    What sets this discussion apart is how the panel ties menopause to sobriety. All the women share that being sober made them far more in tune with their bodies—no more masking symptoms with alcohol or chalking up night sweats to a hangover. “Sober living gives you tools and the ability to accept outside help,” Amy notes. Anne Marie adds how she drank at her perimenopause symptoms without realizing it; now, she finds the whole experience more manageable (and even something to celebrate).

    Lane Kennedy brings her wellness expertise, pointing out that alcohol is a hormone disruptor—it doesn’t delay menopause, it just makes everything worse. Hot flashes and hangovers? Hard pass.

    Hot Flashes or Hot Takes?

    There’s real power—and comfort—in recognizing the diversity of menopause experiences. Some have years of emotional turbulence and irregular cycles, while others, like Alysse, seem to “sail through” with minimal symptoms (other than a memorable breakdown year or two). The group validates that menopause does not come with a one-size-fits-all script—and, crucially, if doctors or society aren’t talking about it, we should be.

    Also? The show is hilarious. From dreams of menopause-themed t-shirts (“I’m Sober & Periwinkle” anyone?) to reclaiming “the crone” as a wise, celebratory phase, these comments make clear: the story of aging is ready for a major rewrite.

    Embracing the Revolution—And Each Other

    Perhaps most poignant is the idea that menopause, like sobriety, is more than just a thing to “get through.” It’s a revolution—one that’s about reclaiming agency, building community, and saying the things our mothers and grandmothers never could. These women talk about shrinking friend groups, clearer priorities, and the gift of dreaming into their futures with clarity and purpose—minus the booze.

    They wrap up with rapid-fire “sober shots” (fave mocktails, playlist anthems), menopause Netflix pitches (“The Menopausse!”), and a nod to the Golden Girls as ultimate icons of aging fabulously on their own terms.

    Want More?

    If you want honest, hilarious talk about menopause, sobriety, and smashing taboos, this episode is essential. Tune in and, as Alysse says, “Keep it real, keep it fun, and keep it sober.”

    Find more curated magic at The Sober Curator.

    And don’t forget your silver balls. #ADDTOCART ON AMAZON


    From Hangovers to Hot Flashes: Menopause Conversations for Sober Women – The Sober Curator Podcast
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    Getting sober matters. Staying sober matters more. That’s the whole premise.

    The Sober Curator Podcast brings sober lifestyle, pop culture and recovery to the mic with personality, perspective and a glitter bomb of honesty. Founder and host Alysse Bryson (sober since May 1, 2006, and self-described Kevin Bacon of Recovery) is joined by co-host and show producer Tamar Routly of Podcast Impact Studio, plus a rotating bench of global Sober Curator contributors who pull up a chair as co-hosts.

    What we cover, episode to episode:

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    We also review other sober podcasts on Recovery Podcastland, dig into sponsored product spotlights, and go deep with contributors on how they got sober and what keeps them there. New episodes drop as video on YouTube and audio everywhere you listen.

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    A.J. Daulerio on The Small Bow, Getting Sober in the Middle of the Hulk Hogan Trial, and Why Sober Media Needs a New Category
    byAlysse Bryson

    A.J. Daulerio got sober in the middle of the Hulk Hogan trial. Three months in, every defect of character he had was being read to a jury. He calls it fourth step dinner theater.

    Then he built The Small Bow, the recovery publication Alysse was embarrassed she didn’t know about: literary essays, free Zoom meetings every day of the week, a podcast, and now a book. Two magazine people and a producer try to name the category they’re in, and mostly fail.

    In this episode:

    • Why AJ interviews himself in the car (and who he pretends is asking)
    • “Sober BuzzFeed” vs. “literary meat”: what each of us is building and who it’s for
    • The Harper’s story about AA that made AJ pay $100 a year, and why nobody writes for people who are past rock bottom and a little adrift
    • Abstinence, sobriety, recovery: why 12-step is one of nine things AJ does
    • The Hulk Hogan trial, the Uber driver who didn’t care, and the lesson in humility
    • The Small Book, out Dec. 29

    Heads up: this one goes to some dark places, including a reader AJ lost and a friend Alysse lost. Take care while listening.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 The train, off the tracks

    01:28 AJ interviews himself in the car

    05:34 How Alysse found The Small Bow

    11:39 “Chicken soup for the dark night of the soul”

    14:40 Are we wellness? Sound baths and trust falls

    15:19 Sober ten years, and the problems get classier

    18:54 Abstinence, sobriety, recovery: 12-step is one of nine

    26:35 The Harper’s story that started everything

    29:58 Literary meat vs. sober BuzzFeed

    41:15 Fourth step dinner theater: the Hulk Hogan trial

    46:57 “I’m the writer. I’m the human.”

    48:47 “So you met Hulk Hogan?”

    57:17 What AJ would tell year one

    01:01:59 “Fast-forward to the part they get sober”

    Sober Shots:

    “You’re allowed to build your whole life around a routine nobody will ever write a headline about.” (Alysse Bryson)

    “All the things that I thought were being taken away from me were also the things I needed to let go of the most.” (A.J. Daulerio)

    Mentioned in this episode:

    – The Small Bow – The Small Book, out Dec. 29 – I’m The Sober Curator, and I Just Found The Small Bow – S2E17 with Paulina Pinsky – Backstage with The Sober Curator

    Getting sober matters. Staying sober matters more.

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