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Derek Castleman

Derek Castleman is a writer, educator, scientist, data analyst and philosopher. Struggling with drug addiction and alcoholism for over fifteen years while at the same time suffering from being bipolar, he was finally able to achieve recovery in 2018. From mental hospitals to rehab, county jail to sober living, 12 Step Programs would be his foundation, but he would eventually discover the path of Stoicism to be the key to his sobriety and sanity.

Stoic Philosopher

It was the middle of the Covid lockdowns, and Derek was unemployed and staying at a sober living when a roommate suggested that he read into Stoic philosophy. Discovering the Serenity Prayer embedded within it and the Steps, he would realize how this philosophy could strengthen his recovery by teaching him how to live a good life no matter what situation he found himself in. Finding no primary source for Stoicism and recovery online, he began to post as thesoberstoic on social media and create his own website, eventually leading to his first book, A Stoic Guidebook for Recovery.

Life

Derek has a Bachelor of Science in Conservation Biology and a Master of Education, which led to him being a high school science teacher for nearly a decade. However, addiction would make it impossible for him to return to the classroom, leading him to earn a Master of Science in Data Science during his recovery and return to the world of education as an educational data analyst. He lives in the small town of Delano, California, with his wife, whom he married in recovery, and their two dogs. He has a fifteen-year-old daughter who actually doesn’t mind spending time with him now that he is sober.

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Sober One Six: October Sober Social – Lloyd (Williamsville)
October 15 @ 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm PDT

Sober One Six: October Sober Social – Lloyd (Williamsville)

9:00 am
GET MASHED NOT SMASHED AT THE UK’S FIRST SOBER OKTOBERFEST
October 16 @ 9:00 am - 2:00 pm PDT

GET MASHED NOT SMASHED AT THE UK’S FIRST SOBER OKTOBERFEST

The Tetley Leeds Hunslet Rd, Leeds
3:00 pm
Virtual Risotto Cooking Class | Teetotal Initiative Pittsburgh
October 16 @ 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm PDT

Virtual Risotto Cooking Class | Teetotal Initiative Pittsburgh

Virtual
Free
BigVision Volunteer Kickoff
October 16 @ 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm PDT

BigVision Volunteer Kickoff

BigVision 309 Social Club 309 East 49th Street @ 2nd Ave, New York
Free
All Day
Friends in Dry Places–Nashville
October 17 - October 22

Friends in Dry Places–Nashville

$2220
7:00 pm
BigVision Acoustic Series
October 17 @ 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm PDT

BigVision Acoustic Series

BigVision 309 Social Club 309 East 49th Street @ 2nd Ave, New York
$15.00
All Day
Friends in Dry Places–Nashville
October 17 - October 22

Friends in Dry Places–Nashville

$2220
5:00 am
Shatterproof Walks to End Addiction Stigma
October 18 @ 5:00 am - 9:00 am PDT

Shatterproof Walks to End Addiction Stigma

The Wharf 101 District Square SW, Washington, DC
Free
9:00 am
Octsoberfest
October 18 @ 9:00 am - 3:00 pm PDT

Octsoberfest

Kiwanis Land Park 9840 Larson Avenue, Garden Grove
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All Day
Friends in Dry Places–Nashville
October 17 - October 22

Friends in Dry Places–Nashville

$2220
12:00 pm
Queer Sober Social at Eli Tea Bar
October 19 @ 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm PDT

Queer Sober Social at Eli Tea Bar

Eli Tea Bar 5507 North Clark Street, Chicago
Free
7:00 pm
The Sober Show
October 19 @ 7:00 pm - 8:15 pm PDT

The Sober Show

Upright Citizens Brigade Theatre 5919 Franklin Avenue, Los Angeles
$17.85

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October 17 - October 22

Friends in Dry Places–Nashville

Friends in Dry Places–Nashville

October 17 - October 22

Friends in Dry Places–Nashville

About this trip HI Y’ALL!  Welcome to your HOOKED TENNESSEE – “Friends in Dry Places” tour!   On this tour we will be hitting some tourist attraction sites AND exploring

$2220
October 17 - October 22

Friends in Dry Places–Nashville

October 17 - October 22

Friends in Dry Places–Nashville

October 15, 2025 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Sober One Six: October Sober Social – Lloyd (Williamsville)
October 15 @ 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm PDT

Sober One Six: October Sober Social – Lloyd (Williamsville)

Sober One Six: October Sober Social Come mingle! If you are sober, sober-curious, Cali-sober, or just supportive of the sober community, ALL are welcome (as always)! RSVP to ENTER the

October 16, 2025 9:00 am - 2:00 pm
GET MASHED NOT SMASHED AT THE UK’S FIRST SOBER OKTOBERFEST
October 16 @ 9:00 am - 2:00 pm PDT

GET MASHED NOT SMASHED AT THE UK’S FIRST SOBER OKTOBERFEST

GET MASHED NOT SMASHED AT THE UK'S FIRST SOBER OKTOBERFEST Mash Gang is to host Swaptober Fest, the UK’s first ever completely sober Oktoberfest celebration, to guarantee a night you

October 16, 2025 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Virtual Risotto Cooking Class | Teetotal Initiative Pittsburgh
October 16 @ 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm PDT

Virtual Risotto Cooking Class | Teetotal Initiative Pittsburgh

Virtual Risotto Cooking Class | Teetotal Initiative Pittsburgh Cook up some cozy fall flavors from your own kitchen as Chef Emily Larsen leads our Spilling the Soup virtual class, guiding

Free
October 16, 2025 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm
BigVision Volunteer Kickoff
October 16 @ 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm PDT

BigVision Volunteer Kickoff

BigVision Volunteer Kickoff We’re kicking off the fall season with our Bigvision Volunteer Kickoff at the 309 Social Club! Come learn about our mission, explore volunteer opportunities, and get equipped with important Member

Free
October 17, 2025 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
BigVision Acoustic Series
October 17 @ 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm PDT

BigVision Acoustic Series

BigVision Acoustic Series Our Acoustic Series showcases incredible local talent in an intimate, substance-free setting designed to bring people together through music and connection.   Featuring performances by: Sam Hoya (Playing Dead) Mike

$15.00
October 18, 2025 5:00 am - 9:00 am
Shatterproof Walks to End Addiction Stigma
October 18 @ 5:00 am - 9:00 am PDT

Shatterproof Walks to End Addiction Stigma

Shatterproof Walks to End Addiction Stigma Together, we walk to end addiction stigma and restore hope for those impacted by substance use disorder. Together, we can change attitudes and save

Free
October 18, 2025 9:00 am - 3:00 pm
Octsoberfest
October 18 @ 9:00 am - 3:00 pm PDT

Octsoberfest

Octsoberfest Get ready to celebrate the power of sobriety at Action Alliance Foundation's third annual Octsoberfest! Welcome to Octsoberfest! Join us for a fun-filled day at Kiwanis Land Park, where we'll be

October 18, 2025 1:30 pm - 7:30 pm
Sober AF Entertainment: LSU Tigers vs. Vanderbilt Commodores @ FirstBank Stadium (Nashville – TN)
October 18 @ 1:30 pm - 7:30 pm PDT

Sober AF Entertainment: LSU Tigers vs. Vanderbilt Commodores @ FirstBank Stadium (Nashville – TN)

Sober AF Entertainment: LSU Tigers vs. Vanderbilt Commodores @ FirstBank Stadium (Nashville – TN)

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October 19, 2025 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Queer Sober Social at Eli Tea Bar
October 19 @ 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm PDT

Queer Sober Social at Eli Tea Bar

Queer Sober Social at Eli Tea Bar   Our monthly Queer, Sober Social meetup at Eli Tea Bar. Meet new friends with similar interests and lifestyles!  

Free
October 19, 2025 7:00 pm - 8:15 pm
The Sober Show
October 19 @ 7:00 pm - 8:15 pm PDT

The Sober Show

The Sober Show Improv comedy based on your drunk stories, performed by sober improvisers. Featuring an all sober cast (like, in-recovery sober), we’ll get drinking stories from audience volunteers and

$17.85
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