Close Menu
The Sober CuratorThe Sober Curator
  • HOME
  • ABOUT
    • DEAR READERS✏️
    • AFFILIATES (AKA SUPPORT US)
    • ❤️ CONTENT
    • CONTRIBUTOR DIRECTORY
    • MEET THE SOBER CURATOR
    • SOBER BUSINESS ROLODEX 📇
    • TSC x PODCAST IMPACT STUDIO🎙️
    • THE SOBER SIP 📧NEWSLETTER
    • 📰 PRESS 📺
    • THE SOBEES 🐝
    • CONTACT 📧
  • HAPPY EVERY HOUR
    • NA BEERS AND CIDERS 🍺
    • NON-ALCOHOLIC WINES 🍾
    • NON-ALCOHOLIC SPIRITS 🍸
    • READY TO DRINK 🥤
    • BEHIND THE BAR 🍋‍🟩
    • NA TASTING EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
  • HEALTH & WELLNESS
    • BREAK FREE
    • CODEPENDENCY
    • MASTERING MENTAL FITNESS 🧠💪🏼
    • MENTAL HEALTH 🧠
    • RELATIONSHIPS 🤟🏽
    • SOBER NOT SUBTLE
    • SOBER POETRY 🖋️
    • SPEAK OUT! SPEAK LOUD! 🗣️
    • SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE 🧬
    • WELLNESS AS A WAY OF LIFE
  • LIFESTYLE
    • #ADDTOCART 🛍️
    • ASK MRS. (W)RIGHT ⁉️
    • COMING OUT SOBER 🏳️‍🌈
    • 🏆 CONTENT
    • ✂️CURATED CRAFTS🎨
    • FASHION 👠
    • SHOP 🛒
    • SOBER SPOTLIGHT 🔦
    • SOBER CONTENT CREATION 💻
    • SOBER UNBUZZED FEED
  • ENTERTAINMENT
    • #QUITLIT 📚
    • MOVIE REVIEWS 🍿
    • MUSIC 🎶
    • POPCULTURE
    • RECOVERY PODCASTLAND 🎙️
    • SOBER CURATOR PODCAST 🎧
    • TSC x PODCAST IMPACT STUDIO🎙️
    • SOBER EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBER SPORTS
    • TV SHOW REVIEWS 📺
  • TRAVEL & EVENTS
    • SOBER EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBER RETREATS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBRIETY IN THE CITY
      • SOBER IN MINNEAPOLIS
      • SOBER IN NYC
      • SOBER IN SEATTLE
    • WHAT A TRIP! 🧳
  • SPIRITUAL GANGSTER
    • THE CARD DIVO 🔮
    • CLASSY PROBLEMS
    • SOBERCAST
    • SOBERSCOPES
    • SOBRIETY IN FLOW 🧘🏻‍♀️
    • THIRSTY FOR WONDER
    • SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE 🧬
    • STOICISM
  • RECOVERY RESOURCES
    • ALCOHOL & SUBSTANCE USE DISORDER RESOURCE GUIDE
    • BREAK FREE FOUNDATION
    • FAMILY RESOURCES
    • GLOSSARY OF ADDICTION AND RECOVERY TERMS
    • LGBTQ+ RECOVERY RESOURCES
    • RECOVERY STORIES
    • SOBER BUSINESS ROLODEX 📇
    • TSC x PODCAST IMPACT STUDIO🎙️
Facebook X (Twitter) Instagram Pinterest YouTube LinkedIn TikTok
The Sober CuratorThe Sober Curator
  • HOME
  • ABOUT
    • DEAR READERS✏️
    • AFFILIATES (AKA SUPPORT US)
    • ❤️ CONTENT
    • CONTRIBUTOR DIRECTORY
    • MEET THE SOBER CURATOR
    • SOBER BUSINESS ROLODEX 📇
    • TSC x PODCAST IMPACT STUDIO🎙️
    • THE SOBER SIP 📧NEWSLETTER
    • 📰 PRESS 📺
    • THE SOBEES 🐝
    • CONTACT 📧
  • HAPPY EVERY HOUR
    • NA BEERS AND CIDERS 🍺
    • NON-ALCOHOLIC WINES 🍾
    • NON-ALCOHOLIC SPIRITS 🍸
    • READY TO DRINK 🥤
    • BEHIND THE BAR 🍋‍🟩
    • NA TASTING EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
  • HEALTH & WELLNESS
    • BREAK FREE
    • CODEPENDENCY
    • MASTERING MENTAL FITNESS 🧠💪🏼
    • MENTAL HEALTH 🧠
    • RELATIONSHIPS 🤟🏽
    • SOBER NOT SUBTLE
    • SOBER POETRY 🖋️
    • SPEAK OUT! SPEAK LOUD! 🗣️
    • SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE 🧬
    • WELLNESS AS A WAY OF LIFE
  • LIFESTYLE
    • #ADDTOCART 🛍️
    • ASK MRS. (W)RIGHT ⁉️
    • COMING OUT SOBER 🏳️‍🌈
    • 🏆 CONTENT
    • ✂️CURATED CRAFTS🎨
    • FASHION 👠
    • SHOP 🛒
    • SOBER SPOTLIGHT 🔦
    • SOBER CONTENT CREATION 💻
    • SOBER UNBUZZED FEED
  • ENTERTAINMENT
    • #QUITLIT 📚
    • MOVIE REVIEWS 🍿
    • MUSIC 🎶
    • POPCULTURE
    • RECOVERY PODCASTLAND 🎙️
    • SOBER CURATOR PODCAST 🎧
    • TSC x PODCAST IMPACT STUDIO🎙️
    • SOBER EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBER SPORTS
    • TV SHOW REVIEWS 📺
  • TRAVEL & EVENTS
    • SOBER EVENTS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBER RETREATS CALENDAR 🗓️
    • SOBRIETY IN THE CITY
      • SOBER IN MINNEAPOLIS
      • SOBER IN NYC
      • SOBER IN SEATTLE
    • WHAT A TRIP! 🧳
  • SPIRITUAL GANGSTER
    • THE CARD DIVO 🔮
    • CLASSY PROBLEMS
    • SOBERCAST
    • SOBERSCOPES
    • SOBRIETY IN FLOW 🧘🏻‍♀️
    • THIRSTY FOR WONDER
    • SPIRITUAL SUBSTANCE 🧬
    • STOICISM
  • RECOVERY RESOURCES
    • ALCOHOL & SUBSTANCE USE DISORDER RESOURCE GUIDE
    • BREAK FREE FOUNDATION
    • FAMILY RESOURCES
    • GLOSSARY OF ADDICTION AND RECOVERY TERMS
    • LGBTQ+ RECOVERY RESOURCES
    • RECOVERY STORIES
    • SOBER BUSINESS ROLODEX 📇
    • TSC x PODCAST IMPACT STUDIO🎙️
The Sober CuratorThe Sober Curator
Home - Classy Problems: Spoons, Shovels, and Bulldozers
Classy Problems

Classy Problems: Spoons, Shovels, and Bulldozers

Dan T. RogersBy Dan T. RogersJanuary 26, 20264 Mins Read
Classy Problems: Spoons, Shovels, and Bulldozers
Share
Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Pinterest Email

Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together, they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.

Classy isn’t just a read: it’s a practice. Read, listen, and join us for Classy Problems Live, a 15-minute, live virtual conversation held Monday through Thursday at 12:15 p.m. PT, where we gather to reflect on the Classy Problems post of the day. No need to prep. Just connect, explore, and reflect. 

Classy Problems Black Crown

Spoons, Shovels, and Bulldozers

I treated every insight the same.
Same weight.
Same depth.
Same life-altering impact.
It didn’t.
It doesn’t.
Some things are meant to be tasted.
Others to be shared.
By the grace of theboss,
a rare few require me
to reorient the ground I stand on.
That’s why I started thinking in tools.
Not tools for solving.
Tools for filtering.
For making truth usable.
Spoons.
Shovels.
Bulldozers.
Each one has a place.
Each one has a purpose.
Each one has a price.
Spoons uncover.
They’re small.
They provide me nourishment.
They help me piece by piece.
They’re designed for working in solitude
when I’m working on me.
Shovels discover.
They’re shared.
They provide us leverage.
They help us move together.
They’re designed for working in a group
when two or more align as one.
Bulldozers discard.
They’re heavy.
They provide clearance.
They help reshape what fits.
They’re designed for working in aligned systems
when teams of teams orient together.
The tool isn’t the insight.
The tool is what makes the insight usable.

Classy Problems Black Crown

Spoons …

Most of my truths are too big to take in all at once.
They require a smaller tool.

Classy Problems Black Crown

Spoons

Most of my truths are too big to take in all at once.
They require a smaller tool.
One made for contact, not change.
Spoons uncover.
They invite me to partake.
Like warm soup on a cold day.
Or ice cream on a hot one.
Spoons deliver what fits.
A spoon gives me the next bite.
Not the whole meal.
What’s here now.
One layer at a time.
Spoons are for solitude.
When I’m working on me.
Uncovering the feeling I skipped.
The preference I pretended wasn’t there.
The ache I thought I’d already worked through.
For nourishment.
They’re light.
They carry weight.
They make it easy.
Thy help me hold one truth at a time
without choking on clarity.
Most of what’s changed me
didn’t arrive in bulk.
It arrived by spoon.

Classy Problems Black Crown

Shovels …

Some truths bring shared meaning to the surface.
They move more than one person alone.

Classy Problems Black Crown

Shovels

Some truths bring shared meaning to the surface.
They move more than one person alone.
They are not mine alone.
They live between us.
They emerge through us.
Shovels discover.
Shovels are for work.
Shared effort.
I’ll carry part of this with you.
They show up in trusted groups.
Two or more of us,
moving as one.
Like digging out a trail
to provide space for someone else.
A shared tool,
in a shared effort,
revealing what we’re both ready to see.
Shovels let us work at the speed of trust.
They’re made for teams.
Sidekicks who’ve aligned in direction,
even if not in pace.
Most of what I’ve discovered
didn’t happen in my own head.
It happened in moments
when the work became the relationship.
When we picked up the same shovel,
digging together.

Classy Problems Black Crown

Bulldozers …

Some truths don’t shape the work.
They reshape the ground it stands on.

Classy Problems Black Crown

Bulldozers

Some truths don’t shape the work.
They reshape the ground it stands on.
They shift the whole terrain.
Bulldozers discard.
They clear space for what’s next.
They move what no one person could carry.
What no single team could manage.
Bulldozers are for reorientation.
The heavy kind.
The kind that affects the whole system.
They’re not fast.
They’re not clean.
They’re not for show.
They’re for when we decide to change design.
By design.
They show up in aligned systems.
Teams of teams.
Organizations inside ecosystems.
When we’re coordinating.
Moving in cadence.
Risking forward motion.
Like rerouting an old road,
inviting others to join.
It’s not about elegant design.
It’s necessary process.
A bulldozer doesn’t arrive by accident.
It’s brought in when what’s been built
is no longer holding.
When we’ve outgrown the old frame.
Ready for next version of next.
Moving towards closer to right.
Most of what has evolved us
didn’t teach us something new,
it cleared out something old.
To make room.
For what we’re becoming.


observations of a sidekick

#ADDTOCART: “Observations of a Sidekick” is not a memoir or another survival story. It’s an invitation into what comes after survival: post-survival living. In a culture addicted to breakthrough moments and lightning flashes, author Dan T. Rogers encourages us to pay attention to the thunder that follows. The echo where transformation begins.


Graffiti Classy Problems NEW

Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together, they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.

What is a classy problem? A classy problem is when we’ve been afforded the opportunity to figure out what to do. Time to figure it out. Time to practice. Time to discern. When faced with the time to figure out a classy problem, it is more effective to focus on what NOT to do than trying to figure out what to do. In a word: restraint. JOIN US in exploring the distinction between what to do and what not to do in the pursuit of clarity.

Footer Image


Spiritual Gangster at The Sober Curator

SPIRITUAL GANGSTER: at The Sober Curator is a haven for those embracing sobriety with a healthy dose of spiritual sass. This space invites you to dive into meditation, astrology, intentional living, philosophy, and personal reflection—all while keeping your feet (and your sobriety) firmly on the ground. Whether you’re exploring new spiritual practices or deepening an existing one, Spiritual Gangster offers inspiration, insight, and a community that blends mindful living with alcohol-free fun.

The Sober Curator Email newsletter
SOBERSCRIBE NOW!
Resources Are Available

If you or someone you know is experiencing difficulties surrounding alcoholism, addiction, or mental illness, please reach out and ask for help. People everywhere can and want to help; you just have to know where to look. And continue to look until you find what works for you. Click here for a list of regional and national resources.

Follow The Sober Curator on TikTok

classy problems dan t rogers
Share. Facebook Twitter Pinterest LinkedIn WhatsApp Reddit Tumblr Email
Dan T. Rogers
  • Website
  • LinkedIn

Meet Dan T. Rogers, visionary leader of WORKP2P, Point to Point Transportation, BEATS WORKING podcast, Classy Problems, and The Intentional Course. This former burrito roller turned CEO has dedicated his life to creating systems to help people figure out what they want and how to get it.

Related Posts

Classy Problems_ Spiritual Energy

Classy Problems: Spiritual Energy

January 19, 2026
Classy Problems_ The Rules We Run On

Classy Problems: The Rules We Run On

January 12, 2026
Classy Problems: My Preference is to Judge

Classy Problems: My Preference is to Judge

January 5, 2026
Leave A Reply Cancel Reply

TSC Readership Study Jan 2026
Classy Problems – A Daily Signal
Audible
SOBERSCRIBE AND GET ON THE LIST!
7 events found.
  • Week of January 26
  • Previous week
  • Next week
All Day
Sober skiing in the French Alps
January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

$1670
All Day
Sober skiing in the French Alps
January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

$1670
6:00 pm
Sober Girlfriends Book Club
January 27 @ 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm PST

Sober Girlfriends Book Club

Kindred Spirits Store 430 George Washington Way, Richland
Free
All Day
Sober skiing in the French Alps
January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

$1670
All Day
Sober skiing in the French Alps
January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

$1670
5:00 pm
Sober Sisters in STL Dry January Book Club!
January 29 @ 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm PST

Sober Sisters in STL Dry January Book Club!

3134 Sutton Blvd 3134 Sutton Boulevard, Maplewood
Free
NON-BOOZY BINGO
January 29 @ 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm PST

NON-BOOZY BINGO

Prāzbar 1105 West Chicago Avenue #Suite 301, Chicago
$17.83
Sober Cafe
January 29 @ 5:30 pm - 8:00 pm PST

Sober Cafe

BEACHSIDE TAVERN 690 E 3rd Ave. New Smyrna Beach, FL 32169, New Smyrna Beach
$13.32
+ 1 More
All Day
Sober skiing in the French Alps
January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

$1670
4:00 pm
Dry Disco with ALTRD + Sober in Central Park
January 30 @ 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm PST

Dry Disco with ALTRD + Sober in Central Park

Williamsburg 599 Lorimer Street, Brooklyn
$28.52
Say It Sober
January 30 @ 4:00 pm - 6:30 pm PST

Say It Sober

2743 Campostella Rd 2743 Campostella Road, Chesapeake
$14.66
5:00 pm
Sober Night at StillPoint Studios + 9D Breathwork
January 30 @ 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm PST

Sober Night at StillPoint Studios + 9D Breathwork

Stillpoint Studios 7918 Quivira Road, Lenexa
See website
+ 1 More
All Day
Sober skiing in the French Alps
January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

$1670
9:00 am
Dry Vibes Philly: A Wellness Social
January 31 @ 9:00 am - 2:00 pm PST

Dry Vibes Philly: A Wellness Social

Billy Penn Studios 1516 North 5th Street, Philadelphia
See website
10:00 am
Dry January, we’ll miss you! Asheville Nonalcoholic Guided Tasting Event
January 31 @ 10:00 am - 1:00 pm PST

Dry January, we’ll miss you! Asheville Nonalcoholic Guided Tasting Event

NØLO - Non Alcoholic Bottle Shop 178 Broadway Street, Asheville
Free
+ 1 More
Notice
No events scheduled for February 1, 2026.
January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

Sober skiing in the French Alps

January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

Sober skiing in the French Alps Ski the French Alps with Matt Pink, aka The Better Life Guy

$1670
January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

January 24 - January 31

Sober skiing in the French Alps

Monday, January 26, 2026

No events on this day.

Tuesday, January 27, 2026

  • January 27, 2026 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
    Sober Girlfriends Book Club
  • January 27 @ 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm PST

    Sober Girlfriends Book Club

    Sober Girlfriends Book Club Each month, we’ll feature a thoughtfully chosen book to support you on this beautiful after-alcohol journey. We’ll read one book over each four-week period, beginning January

    Free

Wednesday, January 28, 2026

No events on this day.

Thursday, January 29, 2026

  • January 29, 2026 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
    Sober Sisters in STL Dry January Book Club!
  • January 29 @ 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm PST

    Sober Sisters in STL Dry January Book Club!

    Sober Sisters in STL Dry January Book Club! Join us for an evening of conversation, connection, and community as we discuss our book pick: Between the Devil and the Deep

    Free
  • January 29, 2026 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
    NON-BOOZY BINGO
  • January 29 @ 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm PST

    NON-BOOZY BINGO

    NON-BOOZY BINGO Get ready for a night of fun, prizes, and delicious non-alcoholic beverages at Non-Boozy Bingo! Multiple rounds of bingo with amazing prizes ∙ Curated selection of premium non-alcoholic

    $17.83
  • January 29, 2026 5:30 pm - 8:00 pm
    Sober Cafe
  • January 29 @ 5:30 pm - 8:00 pm PST

    Sober Cafe

    Sober Cafe Get Your Weekend Party started a little early with Sober Cafe, Thursday, January 29th at 8:30pm - 21+ ONLY | NO COVER Let loose and catch Sober Cafe

    $13.32
+ 1 More

Friday, January 30, 2026

  • January 30, 2026 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
    Dry Disco with ALTRD + Sober in Central Park
  • January 30 @ 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm PST

    Dry Disco with ALTRD + Sober in Central Park

    Dry Disco with ALTRD + Sober in Central Park Celebrate the finale of Dry January in sober-curious style... This is your only chance to party this winter at Club Curious, the

    $28.52
  • January 30, 2026 4:00 pm - 6:30 pm
    Say It Sober
  • January 30 @ 4:00 pm - 6:30 pm PST

    Say It Sober

    Say It Sober Say It Sober is an online hangout where we keep it real and share our sober stories together. Say It Sober: Open Mic Night & Mocktail Launch

    $14.66
  • January 30, 2026 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
    Sober Night at StillPoint Studios + 9D Breathwork
  • January 30 @ 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm PST

    Sober Night at StillPoint Studios + 9D Breathwork

    Sober Night at StillPoint Studios + 9D Breathwork A gathering for people choosing sobriety, clarity, and conscious connection—without alcohol or substances. Sober Nights is a Friday-night gathering for people choosing

    See website
+ 1 More

Saturday, January 31, 2026

  • January 31, 2026 9:00 am - 2:00 pm
    Dry Vibes Philly: A Wellness Social
  • January 31 @ 9:00 am - 2:00 pm PST

    Dry Vibes Philly: A Wellness Social

    Dry Vibes Philly: A Wellness Social Overview Connect, recharge, and celebrate vibrant wellness, mindful living, and community—without alcohol. Dry Vibes 2026 returns to Philadelphia as a WELLNESS SOCIAL, designed to bring together community,

    See website
  • January 31, 2026 10:00 am - 1:00 pm
    Dry January, we’ll miss you! Asheville Nonalcoholic Guided Tasting Event
  • January 31 @ 10:00 am - 1:00 pm PST

    Dry January, we’ll miss you! Asheville Nonalcoholic Guided Tasting Event

    Dry January, we'll miss you! Asheville Nonalcoholic Guided Tasting Event Dry January is coming to a close, but you can still enjoy drinking mindfully! Join us for a non-alcoholic tasting

    Free
  • January 31, 2026 3:00 pm - 5:30 pm
    Boise Speed Dating: Sober Speed Dating Night
  • January 31 @ 3:00 pm - 5:30 pm PST

    Boise Speed Dating: Sober Speed Dating Night

    Boise Speed Dating: Sober Speed Dating Night We’re excited to host our very first Sober Speed Dating event — created exclusively for Boise’s sober community. Boise Speed Dating: Sober Speed

    $47.19
+ 1 More

Sunday, February 1, 2026

No events on this day.

View Calendar
classy problems
The Sober Curator
Facebook Instagram X (Twitter) TikTok YouTube Pinterest
  • PRIVACY POLICY
  • LINKS DISCLAIMER
  • EDITORIAL GUIDELINES
  • TERMS OF SERVICE
  • REFUND POLICY
  • DON’T SELL MY INFO
  • DATA SUBJECT REQUEST FORM
  • CONTACT US
© 2026 The Sober Curator - Benefits of a Alcohol Free Lifestyle

Type above and press Enter to search. Press Esc to cancel.