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Classy Problems: I Want to Be Different

Dan T. RogersBy Dan T. RogersMarch 10, 20255 Mins Read
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Welcome to the Classy Problems weekly mash-up for Monday, February 17, 2025 – Sunday, February 23, 2025

Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together, they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.

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February 17 – Rhythm Replaces Repetition

Repetition is effort. Rhythm is alignment.

Repetition keeps things moving. It reinforces habits, builds muscle memory, and ensures we don’t lose momentum — repetition DEVELOPS purpose.

But left unchecked, repetition becomes mindless. A loop. A grind. Doing for the sake of doing. It’s overproduction. It’s too much toomuchness.

Rhythm is what happens when repetition finds its right sequence. It’s when effort aligns with intention — rhythm INTEGRATES purpose.

Rhythm replaces repetition when we stop forcing the same actions and start aligning them with what’s required now. It’s when we observe and adjust in the moment instead of forcing an outcome — pushing done.

It’s not about doing more or less. It’s about knowing which and when is required. It’s about being intentional.

Are you repeating for the sake of movement or are you finding your rhythm?

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February 18 – The Greatest Gifts Given and The Only One to Give

When facing a survival problem, we have the gift of self-preservation. We can’t overstate the success of survival.

When facing a classy problem, we have the gift of our attention. We can’t overstate the importance of focus.

Attention is placing our focus on something. We are always focused on something. Nothing is something when it comes to attention.

The greatest gift we have to give – the only gift we have to give – is the gift of our attention.

Where are you giving your gift?

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February 19 – Nearness in Order

Everything is an occurrence. And occurrences—plural—WILL happen.

Proximity impacts the effort required. The closer we are to something, the easier it is to respond. The farther away, the harder it gets. But here’s the thing — effort doesn’t eliminate occurrences. Surprises don’t stop just because we work harder.

It’s not necessarily effective to take a different approach WHEN surprises happen. Frequently we can make surprises a part of our approach.

The key is to stay on track, to stay on process. Don’t react to surprises — integrate them.

How can you make surprises a part of your approach?

Classy Problems Black Crown

February 20 – I Want to Be Different

We have to put things in order — in sequence. That’s not up for debate. Organizing the work and how we work isn’t an option. It’s a necessity.

But here’s the classy problem: order isn’t permanent. It’s only ever this version of next. No matter how well we structure things today, we’ll have to realign tomorrow.

That doesn’t mean we stop. It means we align to yesterday’s reference with clarity on the next version of next. Yesterday’s solutions are today’s classy problems.

As things get more complex, and if we want to continue to develop, we must become more precise.

Organizing isn’t about control. It’s about precision.

Precision happens when our organizational, team, and individual goals aren’t just stacked together but are sequenced in alignment.

Alignment isn’t about making things perfect. It’s about making things work.

Are you pursuing permanence or precision?

Classy Problems Black Crown

February 21 – I Want to Be Different

I want to be different — a simple statement, but change doesn’t happen in want. It happens in HOW.

I want to think differently — the how is noticing the pattern of the mind.

I want to feel differently — the how is allowing emotions to show up.

I want to act differently — the how is taking a single action.

Which HOW do you want to be different?

Classy Problems Black Crown

February 22 – Inevitable Oscillation

Everything moves. Everything shifts. Everything oscillates.

The beliefs that we can lock in certainty, nail down the perfect system, or finally get everything just right are stories we tell ourselves to feel safe.

Control is a comforting illusion.

Reality doesn’t work that way. The mistake isn’t in seeking stability. It’s in thinking that stability means stillness.

Oscillation is stability in motion. It’s how we stay aligned without locking ourselves into rigidity.

Surrendering to what’s inevitable isn’t giving up — it’s seeing clearly. It’s recognizing that alignment isn’t a destination but a practice. It is a continuous process of adjusting, refining, and realigning — it’s oscillation.

Where could you surrender to the inevitable and commit to intentional oscillation?

Classy Problems Black Crown

February 23 – Better Games

Games, on the other hand, reveal patterns. They aren’t about rigid steps but about learning how to navigate complexity.

The ability to …

LISTEN for reference
REFLECT for understanding
CAPTURE the learning

… is far more valuable than simply being ‘disciplined’ and following rules.

What if the problem isn’t winning but realizing you’re playing the wrong game?


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Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together, they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.

What is a classy problem? A classy problem is when we’ve been afforded the opportunity to figure out what to do. Time to figure it out. Time to practice. Time to discern. When faced with the time to figure out a classy problem, it is more effective to focus on what NOT to do than trying to figure out what to do. In a word: restraint. JOIN US in exploring the distinction between what to do and what not to do in the pursuit of clarity.

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