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LEAVING CRAZYTOWN

Laugh and Learn: Sober Dating Tips with Sarah and Finn of Leaving CrazyTown

Finn AllenBy Finn AllenJanuary 28, 20242 Mins Read
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In the latest episode of “Leaving CrazyTown,” hosts Sarah and Finn share their experiences and insights into navigating the dating world while avoiding the pitfalls of co-dependency. With Sarah’s recent foray into Bumble and Finn’s ongoing relationship with himself, they offer a unique perspective on what not to do when dating and meeting new people.

Sarah’s Journey into Online Dating

Sarah has recently dipped her toes into the world of online dating, signing up for Bumble. With its unique feature that allows women to make the first move, Bumble offers a different dynamic compared to traditional dating apps. Sarah shares her experiences, the highs and lows, and the lessons she’s learned along the way.

Finn’s Self-Dating Experiment

Finn, on the other hand, is in a different kind of relationship – he’s dating himself. This might sound unusual, but it’s an enlightening journey of self-discovery and self-love. Finn discusses the importance of understanding and loving oneself before entering a relationship with someone else.

Insights from ‘Co-Crazy’

In addition to their personal stories, Sarah also delves into her book, ‘Co-Crazy.’ The book highlights her past failed relationships, offering a raw and honest look into co-dependent behaviors. Sarah uses these experiences to provide listeners with practical advice on how to avoid falling into similar patterns.

Avoiding the ‘Co-Crazy Mode’

One of the main topics Sarah and Finn discuss is how to avoid getting into a ‘co-crazy mode’ when dating. This term refers to the unhealthy co-dependency behaviors that can develop in a relationship. They share tips on maintaining individuality, setting boundaries, and ensuring mutual respect in a relationship.

Laughter as the Best Medicine

Despite the serious subject matter, Sarah and Finn ensure the episode is filled with laughter. They believe that humor can be a great tool to navigate through difficult topics and situations. Their banter and funny anecdotes lighten the mood, making the discussion engaging and relatable.

This episode of “Leaving CrazyTown” serves as a great resource for anyone navigating the dating scene. It provides valuable insights into avoiding co-dependency, maintaining healthy relationships, and the importance of self-love. Listeners are sure to leave with a few laughs and plenty of food for thought.


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