Welcome to the Classy Problems weekly mash-up for Monday, February 10, 2025 – Sunday, February 16, 2025
Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together, they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.
February 10 – Potential Surrender
Courage is surrendering to the potential regardless of consequences — real or imagined.
What potential are you willing to surrender to?
February 11 – Selective Ownership
Intentional Review uncovers that situations are precious framings of our personal preferences or acts of convenience. Said more bluntly, we take ownership when we like things that are easy to do, and we don’t when we don’t like it or it’s hard.
Accountability is a principled approach to choosing when and how to take responsibility.
Intentional Review uncovers that actions reflect what our guiding principles really are — our actions inform us of what we really believe to be true. Said more bluntly, we are willing to pay the price whether we like it or not or how convenient it is.
Are your actions uncovering preferences or principles?
February 12 – Inaction Is An Action
Inaction is an action — the effectiveness is a byproduct of intentionality.
Sometimes the best thing to do is nothing. Other times, it can be very comforting to avoid taking action because we’re afraid.
Being courageous is taking action or not taking action based on what’s indicated, not what’s comfortable.
Do you want to be comfortable, or do you want to be courageous?
February 13 – Nearness Without Proximity
It’s the appropriate effort.
After that foundation is set, we can adjust. We can scale back. We find a rhythm that supports connection and alignment without too much. We let the practice of rhythm replace the practice of repetition.
Proximity is a condition. Nearness is a practice.
Are you practicing repetition before alignment and rhythm after?
WE WANT TO PRACTICE NEARNESS WITH YOU
Today marks the launch of our growing collection of words — a way we practice alignment and nearness with you. We will begin to link words to our semiotics in the daily posts to expand our shared understanding.
February 14 – Beyond Comparison
Beyond comparison indicates that something is so exceptional that it stands alone and cannot be compared to anything else in its category.
Why is it, then, that we insist on comparing ourselves to others?
Intentional Review will uncover that the act of external comparison is based on the survival story that we are in an external competition.
In a post-survival life, a more effective and practical act is based on comparing ourselves to ourselves — what we call internal competition.
Internal competition is comparing a previous version of ourselves to the current version of ourselves.
How can focusing on internal competition improve your comparisons?
February 15 – An Insight And An Epiphany
The difference between an insight and an epiphany is the rate of understanding.
An insight occurs slowly — like waves shaping the shore.
An epiphany happens quickly — like lightning in a storm.
Slow or quick, they feel like gifts from the universe, and they never come fast enough. Keeping score on theboss is silly and an example of precious planning.
The difference between an insight and an epiphany is the rate at which we stop planning preciously.
What’s really happening is that I am pulling my head out of my ass and I am finally accepting reality instead of continuing to hold on to what I want it to be.
When that’s a slow process, I call it an insight. When I do that quickly, I call it an epiphany.
Are you keeping score or accepting what is?
February 16 – Perfection is a Preference
At its worst, perfection is in the distance — just always out of reach. The pursuit of it leads to stalled progress, burnout, and transforms an ALMOST into a FAILURE.
At its best, perfection is a story we tell ourselves about how it should be. It answers all forms of the question: What is right?
But who’s right? According to what standard? On what authority?
The problem isn’t that perfection exists, it’s that we over-inflate the importance of our preference. We mistake “This is how I think it should be” for “This is the only way it can be.”
In doing so, we trade adaptability for rigidity, progress for an illusion, and potential alignment for certain frustration.
But if perfection is a preference, that means we can choose differently. We get to refine. We get to adjust. We get to let go of the “right” way and align with doing what works.
Are you chasing right, or are you pursuing what works?
Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.
What is a classy problem?
A classy problem is when we’ve been afforded the opportunity to figure out what to do. When faced with classy problems, it is more effective to focus on what NOT to do than trying to figure out what to do. In a word – restraint. Join us in exploring the distinction between what to do and what not to do in the pursuit of clarity.
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