Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together, they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.
An Act of Alignment
To orient is to align; to establish where we are and where we’re headed mentally, emotionally, and physically. It connects us to a sense of direction, purpose, and intention. Orienting is adjusting ourselves one action at a time.
When we orient, we create alignment with our thoughts, feelings, and actions, helping us to navigate life’s too much toomuchness with integrity. It is the aspect of focus that initiates meaningful, right-sized progress.
How are you aligning your focus today?
Courage Begins With An Opinion
It’s earned wisdom when we connect that courage isn’t the absence of fear but the willingness to take action in its presence.
If we want to be more courageous, we need to focus on developing our willingness.
Where does willingness come from? It begins with taking a stand. Taking a stand means acknowledging an opinion.
Which is convenient because we always have an opinion. Believing we don’t have an opinion is unwilling to perceive the truth as we believe it to be.
Engaging with reality requires an opinion. It’s not a matter of choice, it’s a matter of awareness.
Opinions, “I like it. I don’t like it”, are vital to survival. Not knowing what my opinions are and why I have them is what causes problems.
Where are you unwilling to take a stand?
PS …
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Objection vs Objective
An objection is resistance. It stops progress, challenges direction, and is an explanation as to why something won’t work.
An objective is a guiding force. It clarifies purpose, aligns effort, and is an explanation as to why we are working.
Is your objective to challenge or to guide?
Over Under
An objection is resistance. It stops progress, challenges direction, and is an explanation as to why something won’t work.
An objective is a guiding force. It clarifies purpose, aligns effort, and is an explanation as to why we are working.
Is your objective to challenge or to guide?
Obssession distorts what we see. When we obsess over subjective emotional loops, we are fixating on details that keep us stuck.
Assessment clarifies what we see. When we assess objectively, what we call Intentional Review, we are separating facts from feelings.
Obsession feeds urgency. Assessment fosters alignment.
One is reactionary, driven by preference. The other is intentional, driven by understanding.
Are you obsessing over your preferences or are you assessing under your standing?
Knowledge and Understanding
Knowledge is gathering the right data, learning the right methods, and putting them into practice. That process requires a guide, and they come in numerous forms – books, teachers, gurus, or ChatGPT. The guide shows us where to find the information and instructs us on how to use and apply the information. This is always based on the orientation of the guide.
Understanding demands more than following. It is reflecting on information, seeing how it plays out, and making connections for ourselves. That process requires outcomes and how they matter to us. Outcomes we like. Outcomes we don’t. These outcomes are necessary so we have additional reference to capture learning that will help OUR orientation with the information.
When we apply information, we gain knowledge. When we translate information, we gain understanding.
Asking for an explanation and hoping to get an understanding is not possible.
It’s up to us to translate it into our own understanding.
What outcomes are offering you reference you haven’t yet translated?
Paid Practice
We are on mission to redeem work. The word. The place. the way.
We believe getting paid to practice life beats working to get paid.
Every job has required skills that can be applied outside of the workplace.
To the extent that I connect and apply those skills, is the extent I am getting paid to practice life.
Paid to practice the parts of my life where I don’t get paid. The parts I pay for.
Doesn’t suck.
Are you working to get paid or getting paid to practice?
Sent
As life becomes more complex, it becomes increasingly important to be precise with our words.
Messaging is not communicating.
Communicating is not messaging.
A message is a transaction of information sent as a one-way transmission.
Communication is an exchange of information sent as a two-way interaction.
Neither guarantees clarity, alignment, or connection.
Don’t confuse the convenience of a message with the call for communication.
Does your message require efficient transmission or a call for interaction?
Classy Problems is a daily post of thinking in motion by Dan T. Rogers. Each post stands alone as a thought-provoking piece, yet together they create a puzzle of ideas. They invite you to see things from a different angle, rethink what you thought you knew, and explore what’s beyond your current understanding.
What is a classy problem?
A classy problem is when we’ve been afforded the opportunity to figure out what to do. When faced with classy problems, it is more effective to focus on what NOT to do than trying to figure out what to do. In a word – restraint. Join us in exploring the distinction between what to do and what not to do in the pursuit of clarity.
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